Me and my partner have been together for nearly 2 years we are always together and hardley ever apart and when we are apart i wana be wit him and he wants to be wit me. Lately he's been p***ing me off jus by doing silly things like not cleaning up afta himself or coming home a little lata then he said. I'm not really talking to him at the moment but he called yesterday and said he loves me but I feel as if he don't show it enough though. How can i make him know how i feel ithout him goin in a strop or havin an argument.
2006-11-29 01:59:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First chill out, dont start biting his head off just for not cleaning up or being a little late. GENTLY ask him or talk to him about whats been going on in his life lately or how his days have been, could be work related, could be not feeling well, we all can't have days where we're up and about getting everything we want, done and on time............so just talk to him, its no reason to start giving him the cold shoulder unless he's out partying or "elsewhere" and coming home late. He shouldn't be mad if you're just asking curiously about why his actions have been changing and he's not cleaning up, etc etc. You should be just fine. Good luck. :)
2006-11-29 02:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your partner must learn that it isn't always about him and that you have needs. If he can't grow up and appreciate your needs then it doesn't look good. Make him sit down with you and talk about both of your needs. He may just feel like he needs some time to himself sometimes. If you can both work out your differences and come to a compromise then things should be OK. On the other hand if he can't even do that then obviously he doesn't think highly enough of your relationship.
2006-11-29 02:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Discotam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly you both love each othera lot. do not doubt that. besides that yeah well what can i say ..these things happen in a relationship? but sometimes men take women for granted and vice versa...and right now you need more attention from him..so try to get it..else leave him alone..maybe he needs a little space since both of you are together all the time.
or make yourself busy with other things..and when he realizes taht you aint giving him enough attention he ll come round...
2006-11-29 02:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by sah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just sit him down and explain how you are feeing! I don't think he would go in to a strop or have a argument! Just tell him how you feel.
2006-11-29 02:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by shelley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key to it is only communication. Just talk to him and tell him how you really feel about him..
2006-11-29 02:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Purplenash-y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him that is the only way you will know whats wrong. Don't argue just talk. *Smiles*
2006-11-29 02:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget those days. call him and talk gently.
2006-11-29 02:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋