The last two men I have dated, started out really good (don't they all) , seemed sweet & sincere etc. Then about 2 months into it decided for whatever reason they didnt want to be with me anymore, instead of being decent and just telling me that it wasnt working, just decided to not call me anymore, or return my phone calls.They just dropped off the face of the earth & acted like I never existed!Why do guys do this?At the very least would a phone call really be that hard?
2006-11-29 02:02:09 · 7 answers · asked by nyc88m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FEAR. Men hate to think, reality scares them, it is easier to live in a fantasyland world in the mind. Once they get to know you and realize you are flesh and blood and have feelings and can think their mind goes into overload and the fuses blow. They become frozen with indecision and bury their heads in the sand. I honest to god don't know what to tell you to circumvent this problem. I have faced it myself and will no longer even try to meet women or talk to them or anything as I don't want to cause hurt feelings or the like. Good luck.
2006-11-29 02:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy I wished this getting lost worked on ex husbands. I hate to say this but get used to it. Many women lie but also many men lie. Alot of times they have other women or just use you for sex and move on. It is hard to believe that men use women that way but they do. Sex has become too easy for men. Women do not need men like they used to..So it is easier to skip from one person to another. Don't worry about the phone honey..don't ever wait for phonecalls.
2006-11-29 02:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause either they get scared the relationship might get too serious too soon or because they genuinely do not want to deal with your hurt feelings. It sucks, but honesty is still the best policy in my book.
I have to admit I've done it to guys as well, though, so they are not the only guilty parties.
2006-11-29 02:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by brewcitybabe4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys can't talk to women. We pretend while dating, but really we have no idea how to have a real conversation with a woman. And seeing a woman cry is like kryptonite to us, so we blow women off instead. It's our way of dropping a hint.
2006-11-29 02:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by jjbeard926 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's really preoccupied. might want to or not that is yet another lady? perchance artwork correct, yet he might want to be able to atleast get away for a cup of espresso and some mild coversation which include his gf, facilitates take off some rigidity, at the same time as artwork receives too worrying. I hate to assert it, despite the indisputable fact that it sounds like yet another lady.... i'm hoping i'm incorrect! sturdy success and take care
2016-10-07 23:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they are jerks. They must have commitment-phobia. Think of it as them doing you a favor.
2006-11-29 02:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not ready to commit
2006-11-29 02:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋