I met a guy at happy hour last week. It's been a week & he hasn't called. Next time, should I ignore him?

Answer 1

Yeah, don't look for a commitment in a bar.

Answer 2

Did you sleep with him? Did he promise to call you at a certain time? A week is not that long time to wait to call somebody you met at a bar. Hell he could have been drunk and lost your number or he may not even remember you if all y'all did was talk.

Give him a reason to remember you (in case he is playing the dating games). Walk up to him and kiss him and say I was thinking about you last week, then slap him (not to hard) and tell him that is for making you wait when you was so horny you could die.

Now I'm not saying do exactly that but that will make him remember you and also make him stop playing the stupid dating game if he thought he missed out of a good time.

P:S: If a guy calls a woman the next day he will look desperate and if he waits to long y'all think he don't care. However, when I was dating I would call in about three days and always told the truth.

Answer 3

Here's what I would do. If I saw him again, I'd go up to him and say hi. If he's interested, he'll say more than just hi. He might even be glad to see you, and tell you why he didn't call you (lost your number, busy with other things) If he's not interested, he probably won't be very friendly. If he isn't very friendly, in the future I'd say "hi" and move on to find someone who is interested in you, and you in him. Either way, keep a smile on your face, and remember not to take it personally.

Answer 4

He may be busy, but still interested. He also might be trying to play it cool and not call right away.

I know that's something I would have done when dating, I would never call a girl before 5 days passed or I thought I'd look desperate.

Answer 5

I wouldn't ignore him. That will only make you look petty and immature. But I would wait for him to come up to you and just act like it was no big deal. You just met the guy so don't sweat it.

Answer 6

(scenario)... A bar, happy hour, drinks are cheap, hanging out with friends, laughing, drinking, laughing, drinking, spot a cute chic from acrossed the room, staggering over, (lil drool on corner of mouth)... talk to hot chic, drink another drink, laugh with hot chic, drink another, thinks there might be a chance, (slightly touches chic), drinks another drink, friends start yelling time to go, trade numbers with hot chic, on way home with the guys, laugh, and compare notes about hot chic with friends, go home, drink, laugh, drink, laugh, PASS OUT.............. lost number, or wake up not remember hot chic, just what friends tell you!!

Never let a guy know your sooooooo interested. If there isn't a chase, they get bored. lol So yes......smile, say hi, but let him know he's not the only hottie..... beer goggles will let you see. lol

Keep your head up.. but if your looking for a relationship I wouldn't suggest it at the bar. Stay confident!!

Answer 7

Where is it written that he must call? Maybe he's not interested.
No need to be rude when you see him next. Simply say hi. Why make an issue out of nothing?

Answer 8

There may not be a next time. I just would ignore him if he approaches (you) be nice but don't put too much effort into him.

Answer 9

When he calls, set up a time and place to meet. Then, wait for him where he can't see you and have one of your not so pretty friends act like she's you. You'll get a big kick out of it. Of course do not tell you friend that you think she is UGLY!!

Answer 10

If you see him, smile and say "Hi", then walk on by. Don't make an effort to talk to him, though. Just be polite. If you ignore him, he'll know it bugged you. Don't give him the satisfaction.

Answer 11

I think someone wrote a song about that..."lookin' for love in all the wrong placesssss"

Yeah, he ain't callin. If he buys you another drink, refuse it and ignore him.