Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

on and off for about 6 months now....to get cheap laughs and giggles.

do you think its time to stop??? is that enough already???

2006-11-28 03:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:09:45 · 28 answers · asked by pam 1 in Singles & Dating

i watched my mom be single and miserable.....i haven't been single, on the other hand, for 14 years and i am only 29.....one long term relationship to another........alot of times i dream about being single, then my fantasy becomes scary and lonely...am i co-dependant? i think no cuz i have worked on it for like 4 years now.

2006-11-28 03:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 18 years, and he is a wonderful and loving man, but there is times that I am looking for fun with him, but not to sound like I am ungrateful I just want to have fun with him for the rest of my life, but I find myself crying sometimes because there are so many things that is preventing me from having that fun with my husband...We used to have fun all the time and now we don't not that much..Tell me what do you think I should do to recapture the fun times that we had before?
Looking for a piece of good advice to heal my sadness from my heart! Thanks

2006-11-28 03:09:22 · 8 answers · asked by beagirl40 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OKEY! TIME TO ASK FOR HELP!!
WE BOTH LOVE. I REALLY LOVE HER ALOT! NOW WE HAVE 2 PROBS.
SHE IS ENGAGED TO SOMEONE BACK HOME WHO SHE DOESNT LIKE, IF THE CHANCE GIVEN SHE COULD BREAK HER ENGAGEMENT.
NOW THE BIG PROBLEM IS THAT I REALLY RESPECT MY PARENTS THE ONLY REASON I GOT TO THIS POINT IS BECAUSE OF MY FAMILY AND THE AMOUNT OF LOVE WAS GIVEN FROM MY FAMILY.WHEN I WAS FALLING FOR THIS GIRL I WAS AWARE TAHT MY FAMILY WOULDN;T ACCEPT HER JUST BECAUSE SHE IS ENGAGED AND NOT ONE OF THOSE GIRLS MY PARENTS ARE LOOKING FOR ME SO I DONT WANNA GO TO A POINT WITH HER WHERE SHE BREAK HER ENGAGEMENT AND MEANWHILE MY PARENTS DOESNT ACCEPT HER TO THE FAMILY. I DONT LIKE RUNNING AWAY I LIKE TO GET WHAT I WANT. BUT AM REALLY CONFUSED! I WANT TO PLEASE EVERYONE AND BE HAPPY IN LIFE JUST TO MERRY THSI GIRL I LOVE:(.

ANYONE WITH GOOD iDEA? OR aDVISE?

2006-11-28 03:08:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm pretty close friends with both the girl and the guy in this couple but I can't believe the stuff she says to him sometimes in front of our friends and basically, everyone else. I don't think it's really any of my business, but still, it makes for some pretty awkward times and I've lost a lot of respect for both of them. Sometimes, I just want to hear him tell her where to go. Could it be that this just works for them? :-/

2006-11-28 03:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

quick run down.
i started a new second job and there is only ONE hott guy working there, and we've been talking a little, but he is moving out of state in a couple days, and I approached him and he thinks im not serious about going out on a date before he leaves...i just want to tell him somthing funny or somewhat sexual, just for fun. anybody have a good idea on a line (or maybe a joke) i could tell him...??
and how the heck do i get him to not move away???
he's not leaving for any particular reason.
and he's my eye-candy...without him work will suck

2006-11-28 03:08:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:07:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my current gf for about 6 months. Told me she told her ex she loved him. It was a long distance relationship (several states away) in which he cheated on her and she broke it off. Their relationship lasted about 4-5 months total. Things ended there back in late Dec and we started dating around end of July so its almost been a full year since they broke up. Should I be concerned with being the rebound? What are some signs I should look for? So far things seem to be going ok, but I still have my doubts sometimes she may not be over him even though I have been her longest relationship. She has not said she loves me by the way...we've talked about that and she says she isn't ready to say it just yet. Possilby afraid of being hurt again if she verbalizes it to me? Her actions make me think she loves me and she's told me that she feels comfortable with me and likes spending time together. She isn't needy or clingy and is a very independent person as well.

2006-11-28 03:07:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you like it and if so, tied up and spanked or just a bending over for you spankings. With a hand or whip or paddle?

Suggestions here.

Also if tied up blind folded?

Thanks again, Juleette

2006-11-28 03:05:10 · 32 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Singles & Dating

graduate school. During the early part of of it, he tells me he wants a relationship. Then he tells me he's isn't ready for one. Ok. Then I "caught" him w/someone. I remained cool but he took off running when he saw me. Why lie? Just be honest if you're seeing other people. I was! Things got tense btw us so we took a break, during which he started dating some girl.

Recently, he decided he wanted us to stop having sex. Cool. So I say, "No sex, no friendship." FWB rules. He flipped, saying that I was just using him for sex. Duh! But I indulge him and try being "friends". Soon it becomes apparent that it's not working (hence the reason I said no sex, no friendship in the first place)

So does he want a relationship? He says no, he's not ready; I say, you told me that before and then got into a relationship w/someone else. BS. I think he's intimidated because we're both in graduate school. He dates immature woman (his words) and complains about it all the time.

2006-11-28 03:05:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for me it is finished in just 2 minutes. I am 45+ age. is it OK. Or can I go on longer time at it.

2006-11-28 03:05:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean really-aside from even more boring and painfull, cannot even imagine.

2006-11-28 03:03:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me and I am still completely in love with him. We never argued or had any real problems. He only broke up with me because he didn't think he was good enough for me, which is silly because I always told him how wonderful he was. He didn't think he made enough money or spent enough time with me... and I'm not materialistic, so I didn't care that he was poor.
Anyway, I just need to know how to get over him because I don't want to think about him and the "what if", and all of that stuff.
I don't want to move on, but I know I should....to be healthy or whatever, so....any tips on that?

Oh, and for those of you who will suggest that I find someone new: I'm letting my X (father of my kids) try to start again because I do love him, I'm just not "in love" with him. I guess I figure that if I can't be happy with the one I want, at least I can let the kids and their father be happy. I'm used to being depressed anyway. So it's just going back to the way it was.

2006-11-28 03:02:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a problem , i cant trust the people around me.in all diffrent cases.eg work,relationships,emotionally,,,what do you guys suggest?? plz help

2006-11-28 03:02:53 · 5 answers · asked by R.A. 1978 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i go with dis guy 4 about 1 week and he's reeally nice but im not sure im feelin him like i used 2.

2006-11-28 03:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Jameliza 1 in Singles & Dating

Righto, Now I know this isnt one of the best places to ask this, but I have met a girl and become good friends with her. I make jokes and make her laugh, and last week she said "Your Different" in a good way, and recently "ur funi" via msn, also in a good way. She let me lok through her text messages as our hands touched, and we keep putting our arms over each other in a sly manner recently also. Now recently im unsure to whether shes starting to see me as just a friend, or sees me as more. Plus it seems the touching and such has gone done a tiny bit since last week.

I know I may be rushing and looking into things to much, but I would like some outside advise. Opinions? :)

2006-11-28 03:02:18 · 4 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

My last girlfriend doesn't return any emails. I was wondering how you can you tell if an email is reaching the intended address, if it is blocked, or if her email address isn't working? From this end the email is shown as sent. My email are going usually through hotmail but I have used both her hotmail and yahoo email addresses, no response. It may be by choice but just wanted to know their email address status and if my email is blocked?

2006-11-28 03:01:07 · 1 answers · asked by iceblue_purple 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What if you where dating & talking to somebody, and you both had real fealings for each other and everything.

But WHAT would you do if they just stopped ALL contact with you without WARNING?

What would you do, I'PLAN on doing this to a girl only becuase I'm just plain worn and tired....

But REMEMBER THE QUESTION is what would you do if this happened to you?

2006-11-28 03:00:51 · 20 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been daiting a guy for 1yr and 1/2 and i love him very much when he goes out iwht his friends i think that he is cheeting on me bec. my last boy friend cheeted on me 3 times how can i learn to trust him ? How can i help from not arguing so much Please help

2006-11-28 03:00:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who has been really busy lately, but even taking that into account, she's been a bad friend in small ways. it also feels that she's sort of pushing me away slightly for reasons i can only guess at. should i confront her about this, and if so, how should i approach it? she seems to have little need for friendship in a traditional sense, but likes it to be there if and when she needs it, which is a little selfish as well i think...any advice would be really appreciated.

2006-11-28 03:00:40 · 15 answers · asked by abc123 1 in Friends

I called and asked her 4 a date few months back she said yeah, but she took a rain check, this rain check happened like 2-3 times, tough she does call and talk 2 me whenever she has time, and she flirts so she seems to be into me, n i dig that

now the thing is shes started to hang with this other guy a bit, he was even suppose to dance with her on the fest, but she backed out - and told him 2 dance with someone else,
she spoke to me a few days after we made tentative plans, i told her to get back to me on da date, I spoke to her the next day, and she told me the club she was at - and invited me over, we danced and she kept smiling at me, and was nice to me - she had to leave later on , so her was walking forward, her stretched her hand back, and i held her hand and we walked out - i said we must do the date thing - she said sure thing and then she smiled, and gave me a hug - then walked off...

2006-11-28 02:59:45 · 4 answers · asked by Dante_Las 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 02:58:30 · 18 answers · asked by princess12 1 in Singles & Dating

u can give examples

2006-11-28 02:58:11 · 2 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for about 2 months and things were great we really connected and everything the only problem is that he lives 2 hrs away and he broke it off with me because of the distance.
Well he still calls me about 2 or 3 times a week and we've hung out since then but only as friends.
Should I tell him that I miss him and want us to try it out and see how it goes? Or do I just let it go?
I want to tell him but dont know if I should. Surely he still has something for me or why would he call me and tell me he wants to see me and hang out.
PLEASE tell me what's the best thing to do!

2006-11-28 02:57:25 · 29 answers · asked by Blondie<3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

its not many places for them to go because their both don't want to be involve with social service fully

2006-11-28 02:56:41 · 8 answers · asked by enjlovers 1 in Family

my boyfriend and i have been fighting for a week because he is a inconsiderate asshole. he never has respect for me or my 3 kids, he treats me like his servant. we have been living together for 4 months and he hasn't even taken interest in my kids. now since thursday he told me to move into the living room until i can move out and get my own place. it has been almost a week and we still havent talked, on sat & sun i went with my friends to atlantic city to get away from my problems. we still haven't spoke since. i don't know what to do. i have no money saved up and no where to live. my kids have always hated him and they always will. my kids even agree with me that he should move and not us. what can i do.. should i continue sleeping on the couch or what..

2006-11-28 02:56:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been friends with my bf my whole life even though we have only dated a year. I am 24 and he is 27 years old .Its very strange because i remeber all the girls he went through , cheated on, or dated all at once.Its been bothering me that i remeber all the faces(i met them) of those girls he slept with well over 20 i would say.I have only slept with 4 guys and they were all serious relationships.

2006-11-28 02:54:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating