Stops ALL CONTACT without WARNING?

Question

What if you where dating & talking to somebody, and you both had real fealings for each other and everything.

But WHAT would you do if they just stopped ALL contact with you without WARNING?

What would you do, I'PLAN on doing this to a girl only becuase I'm just plain worn and tired....

But REMEMBER THE QUESTION is what would you do if this happened to you?

Answer 1

well i will go to her and ask her one question
" why u stoped contacting me ? is there is any problem ? what wrong i did ? "
then if they answer because i am not accepted then i will go away

Answer 2

I'd be disappointed that the coward couldn't tell me straight up. c'mon. be a man.

why would you put anyone through that? it would have the potential to make me wonder, doubt myself, want closure.... i would get angry and either punch your lights out or not know you at all if i saw you again. i'm not joking.

make it easier for both of you don't do something so rash, why would you make the path harder for yourself and another? that's why so many people are walking around with wounded hearts that are having problems in their next relationships.... because of things people do like the thing you are considering.

just because you may be emotionally handicapped doesn't mean you have to make all women you date end up like you.

Answer 3

That's just plain mean. Be a man and end the relationship the right way! If you're "worn and tired" tell her, don't just leave her hanging. Yes she will be hurt, but she'll recover more quickly if you're straight with her.

Answer 4

I think it's very rude, disrespectful, and immature. I would be very upset if someone did this without warning, unless I did something majorly wrong. But, from what you're describing, all is well...so I'm not sure why anyone would take this approach.

Answer 5

I would be devastated because I was not afforded a reason. If you are mature enough to date you are mature enough to afford being honest with her. Tell her how you feel then close the door and move on. But to walk and ignore leaves another person unable because they do not understand. So I would be devastated hurt upset angry.

Answer 6

If you did that to me I would be really upset, and try calling you and ask why you won't talk to me...

Just to let you know, though, this may cause more problems. The girl will more than likely call you non-stop, leave you upset messages, etc. It will be more trouble than it's worth.
Just let her know what you're feeling and tell her you can't take it anymore.
Just fair warning.

Answer 7

This is happening to someone I know, and although it hurts, she will be stonger and never let that slime back into her life. She will not make any kind of contact, nor confront him. He's proved himself not a man by his actions. Totally not honest. She will move on and ultimately he is the looser.

Answer 8

If it were me, I'd let it go. If a guy did that to me, I would get the hint that he had some reason for not wanting to get in touch with me and I'd move on. Life is too short to obsess over someone, especially someone who doesn't have the common courtesy to tell me to my face that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore.

Answer 9

Forget them happen to me. Dont contact them trust me had the guy eating out of the palm of my hands about 5 months later.
By then I did not care so I screwed him then never talked to him again as pay back.Boy got that man back.I bet he thinks twice about that one again.

Answer 10

I guess I would have to just accept it.

I would be very sad I think.

It is very stupid to give up somebody you have good feelings for. Good friends are rare. Why not try to keep em. At whatever level works for you.

I would accept it and hope she changed her mind sometime.

Answer 11

I just had this happen to me, actually. I sent him a text after two weeks telling him i was fed up with whatever the hell was going on and broke it off.