i have a problem , i cant trust the people around me.in all diffrent cases.eg work,relationships,emotionally,,,what do you guys suggest?? plz help
2006-11-28 03:02:53 · 5 answers · asked by R.A. 1978 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, Trust is something people gain through their experiences. Your trust towards other people reflects your perception of them. Isn't there anybody really trustworthy? Did all of them hurt you the same to not trust at all? if the answer is yes, then you're case is an extreme case of paranoia. a psychological defence mechanism to prevent future hurts....
but Human beings are not Hurt-proof... you really can get hurt but it depends on you on how deeply you want to be. you can get out of an experience losing trust to only 1 person, but use your wisdom, knowing that 1 person should not change your whole preception in life most especially your Trust issue.
dont worry, though trust is not fixable. you can surely start building a new one with a new person.
2006-11-28 03:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by simplyJESSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something happen in your past that you have trust issues? Talk to a professional and try to figure it out. Otherwise how will you allow yourself to get close to any one?
2006-11-28 03:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a shrink, as you may need medication. Certainly not everyone in your life is untrustworthy!!!
2006-11-28 03:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by ladyscootr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately u cant trust urself. anyways i think the best thin for u to do is try to see Dr Phil
2006-11-28 03:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't trust anyone but ur self that is what i say no one is going to care for u except ur self
2006-11-28 03:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are paranoid. just chill.
2006-11-28 03:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋