Righto, Now I know this isnt one of the best places to ask this, but I have met a girl and become good friends with her. I make jokes and make her laugh, and last week she said "Your Different" in a good way, and recently "ur funi" via msn, also in a good way. She let me lok through her text messages as our hands touched, and we keep putting our arms over each other in a sly manner recently also. Now recently im unsure to whether shes starting to see me as just a friend, or sees me as more. Plus it seems the touching and such has gone done a tiny bit since last week.
I know I may be rushing and looking into things to much, but I would like some outside advise. Opinions? :)
2006-11-28 03:02:18 · 4 answers · asked by James 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw, im 18 and shes 17, we meeting in college.
2006-11-28 03:02:41 · update #1
And if you were wondering how we met, via friends and we then started talking and such, and now have an ongoing joke that were engaged after I asked her to marry me in a joke like fashion and she said yes. Which complicates things a little more on whats real and such if you get what i mean lol
2006-11-28 03:07:19 · update #2
And finally, I live in the UK :P
2006-11-28 03:07:50 · update #3
Thanks to everyone so far! One thing I didnt mention, I feel like were still getting to know each other, and we have only started talking properly and being good with one another for a two weeks now. But I think I fear that I will just become a friend to her instead of something else if I dont be a certain way with her at the moment
2006-11-28 03:16:36 · update #4
Let's get this straight and simple. Friendship and love go hand in glove. Two people can be very good friends without getting to that extent.
In this case of yours, she is taking everything gradually, while you are a bit ahead. This means that your pace is not the same with hers.
She is your friend but I advice you flow at the same pace for your frienship to be very okay and you'll become happier.
I'll get back to you.
2006-11-28 03:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by yudiedydx2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is ask her on a date and see what happens. If she says yes then she likes you, if she says no then probably not. Just ask her how she feels if you are uncomfortable asking her on a date. People want the truth. College is a place for new experiences, have fun and enjoy it while you can.
2006-11-28 11:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she would like to be more but when are you guys going to realize that us girls dont like to make the first move on a guy because you all might think we are easy. If she is flirting with you like that then she likes you. Go ahead ask her out before someone else does. If you let the friendship go on for too long it might get more awkward for the two of you to go to a different level.
2006-11-28 11:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by COCOA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. Ask yourself what you really want. Then just ask her without any fear of the result. Getting the facts on the table is good way to start. Your soulmate could be right next to you, but without the courage to ask, they just keep walking by.
2006-11-28 11:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋