Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

im sixteen i wanna kno should i date sumone in college or sum thin ?

2006-11-28 03:56:09 · 6 answers · asked by prettyeyez19 1 in Friends

Guys, would you be ok with your girlfriend sharing a bed with her "best friend", which is a dude?

2006-11-28 03:56:08 · 4 answers · asked by Tyson 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband just got a new job that requires him to work longer hours (lot more money being made though!!!) I've had such a b*tchy attitude since then though cause I feel like I barely see him. I know its wrong cause he trying to do the best thing for me and the kids. How should I make it up to him??? I knows he's not to happy with the attitude. Should I give him awsome sex, a super clean house, make him his favorite dinner, get the kids outta the house for the night so we have some quiet, or should i just do all of the above plus some more????

2006-11-28 03:55:44 · 22 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 15 days now. ARE THR CHANCES THT HE WILL MESG OR CONTACT ME AGAIN???

2006-11-28 03:55:10 · 5 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to convince my parents to increase my pocket money but they wouldn't allow me. so i whant to know if there is anything that i will say will let them allow me to have my pocket money in a higher rate?

2006-11-28 03:55:04 · 7 answers · asked by teenangel 1 in Family

I am willing to wait, but any advice to keep us close(even though we are miles away)?
Thanks:)
God Bless and Be Safe:)

2006-11-28 03:55:01 · 6 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy online. We have a lot in common. We have great conversations. But there are some things that bother me about him. He's really laid back and a little too sensitive. I'm used to having an assertive man. Is he not a man man by being overly laid back. He grew up in a household full of women. I'm scared that he may be the type to after 5 years of marriage come to me and tell me he's sleeping with men. We've only been out on a couple of dates, am I overthinking this? Should I give him a chance? Maybe what that's what I needed to change with the guys I've been into in the past. They were assertive etc. but they were all @$$holes. What do you guys think??? I need outside opinions!

2006-11-28 03:54:42 · 18 answers · asked by DajaVu07 1 in Singles & Dating

I desperately need some advice, insight or something. I have been married for 13 years and have 3 children. For the last 6 months I've not had any feelings of love (for lack of a better description) for my husband. I will give a little background info. My husband has always been very critical of me; either I wasn't thin enough, or the house wasn't clean enough, etc. About 2.5 years ago, I insisted that he see the dr as I felt he had obsessive/compulsive disorder. The dr agreed and put him on meds and he seemed to improve, or at least I thought he did and life became better. Last May I had to go out of town on business for 1month. During that month, although I missed my kids terribly, I realized that I actually was happy w/o him in my life daily. No one to ***** at me over the least little thing. During that time I was happy. I've been home for 6 months and I have no warmth or affection for him anymore. I've tried to spark it, but it just isn't there anymore and I'm so torn.

2006-11-28 03:54:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my fiance and I just recently had a baby, during the pregnancy he treated me really badly, he would call me names and put me down and yell at me and try to control me ALL the time. Well when it came sooner for our baby to be born he calmed down a LOT. Well just recently he is starting to be his old self again, and I do not want to go through it again. Our deal was for him to get a job and I will be a stay at home mom, well today we had a fight and he is thinking about leaving me, and I told him fine but I am taking our baby and he said that he will take me to court and he WILL get him because he will have a job. Well I have some proof of the stuff he did to me during my pregnancy, and I dont want to lose my baby, I love that boy more than anthing in the world, if we were to break up and if he did take me to court, is there a chance that I will get to keep my baby and them not give him to my fiance? I dont want my baby growing up like him!

2006-11-28 03:53:54 · 4 answers · asked by this_is_me444 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this Swedish girl on my cheffing course who I fancy, but she is rather "poker faced" and quiet. How can I coax her out of her shell? I'm at a loss here!

2006-11-28 03:53:45 · 12 answers · asked by cta_chester 2 in Singles & Dating

or does the mind cleverly disguise itself as the heart sometimes to get it's own way?

2006-11-28 03:53:07 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

i met a boy in my new class.first day he was looking at me many times..it had repeated every day.but i dont know whether he loves me or not.but i like him now..pls help me....

2006-11-28 03:52:02 · 15 answers · asked by rose 1 in Singles & Dating

My step-sister is an emotional vampire. She calls me at work 2 or 3 times a day, then she turns around and calls me at home in the evening 3 and 4 times a day. I just recently gotten married, and last night she called me at home at 11:30 p.m then turned around and called at 12:00 midnight. Alot of times, she doesn't want anything or to talk about this guy she was seeing. (a loser). I'm at my wits end on how to deal with her. Any suggestions?

2006-11-28 03:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family

How long sholud I ignore this girl who's on my mind all the time since she doesn't take our friendship seriously.

2006-11-28 03:51:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why does love make you crazy, Happy, and confused all at the same time. It is like nothing else matter in the world but being with him. When he is not around all I do is think of him, when he is around I am so happy.

2006-11-28 03:51:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Even though I always felt like a woman, I was born as a guy. It's been 4 years I've been subjected to a surgery to change my sex. Ever since I decided to start my life over. I moved to another town where nobody knew me and I met an amazing guy. We're together for 3 years and we've jut got married. However, I keep that secret from him. I never had the courage enough to tell him the truth because I'm afraid of him to leave me if he ever finds out and I love him too much to risk losing him. But I'm afraid that sooner or later he's gonna find it out eventually. So I don't know what to do about it. He's starting to talk about having children and I'm afraid this might be the beginning of my problems to keep hiding the truth from him. What should I do actually?

2006-11-28 03:51:27 · 27 answers · asked by Myself 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i cheated on my boyfriend how can i make it up 2 him

2006-11-28 03:51:21 · 32 answers · asked by Sexi B..i.t.c.h 1 in Singles & Dating

My father-in-law passed away last week and when my husband went back to work his co-workers had collected over $1,000 for him. What are we supposed to do with this money?

2006-11-28 03:51:11 · 4 answers · asked by Mommy to One 2 in Family

Currently I am engaged to a WONDERFUL woman. A girl that I have known for a little more than 7 years. My best friend. There have been issues with us finally getting together, distance in living, myself having someone close by as well as her. Well it finally happened, and we were very happy at first. The issue at hand is though, she is still in love with her EX, who treated her very poorly I might add, but she still loves and cares for him. Now she is afraid that our relationship might not work because of this, she feels that she can't give her heart back to me as she once did so long ago because she doesn't know how. I am concerned for her and love her more than life itself. I want nothing more than to see her happy and to be apart of that happiness she has. It has also come up that she might possibley be caring "our" child. I fear that this may be a cause for her recent actions, I know sometimes I get frustrated with her, seeing that she is back and forth between my house and her par

2006-11-28 03:51:03 · 7 answers · asked by rondleet3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:50:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by BeGe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:49:33 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

I am sort of seeing this guy who when hes drunk shows every emotion of wanting to be with me. Tells me he misses me when were not together. Wishes I was with him more. Quit your job I'll take care of you.
Than the next day his first words are I can't remember what I said to you I was drunk. I never tell him. I just laugh and say yep you were drunk and very funny. Not sure I believe him all the time that he cant remember.

2006-11-28 03:49:25 · 32 answers · asked by rdwngfever 2 in Singles & Dating

Your last piece of gum?

2006-11-28 03:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

On 8/10/06 my wife left me after i vented some frustration regarding my 7 year old step daughter. I used foul language and yelled, my step daughter was not home during this venting. My wife has sinced moved out and filed for an anullment, she has also cut off all communication with me. My wife who i love dearly has a "PAST", since her 7 year old daughter was born she's had seven significant relationships. 1 the babies dead, 2 a fiance who left her, 3 an old high school boyfriend who cheated on her, and 4 me. I knew this going in but was fully committed to the both of them and loved them with all my heart. I have sent her e-mails expressing my love and asking for her forgiveness. I have even gone to her moms house where she is leaving and said i am sorry and all she said was "you got her involved". I gave the child all the love and attention in the world, more than her own father. I just had trouble with repeating myself go clean your room your mom wants it clean. i love them both.

2006-11-28 03:48:45 · 10 answers · asked by john d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My firstborn was in the hospital for a month, so I was not able to bond with him. Now that he's home, I have yet to really bond with him. I had to go back to work.Well my mother in law is visiting us for about a month, pretty much to see our baby. This is her 3rd grandson. We get along fine but the problem I'm having with her is she is invading my time with my baby. She does everything with my baby. She bathes him,she feeds him, she sleeps with him, she gets up in the middle of the night with him, changes his diapers, sings to him, puts him to sleep.she does everything that I should be doing. I'm his mother and I should be bonding with him. It seems like I turn around, she's there with my son. Everytime I try to hold my son, he starts to cry and she will take him from me. She also points out the things I'm doing wrong. I tell my husband and he says "she is only here for a month" I'm afraid in that month he will think she is his mother and not me. Am I overreacting or is this an issue?

2006-11-28 03:48:08 · 7 answers · asked by cvezsays 1 in Family

2006-11-28 03:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by bryanna 1 in Singles & Dating

He is mature for his age at times,but I dont think he is ready for a older woman. For example he hangs out with his friends alot and he doesnt show affection alll the time.When I ask if he is sure he wants this he says yes.I also let him hold one of my rings and he haven't had it on in two weeks when I asked him he said his mom has it but I called to ask her and she doesn't know any thing about a ring,he stormed out of the house and I haven't talked to him since last night. I am not dumb but I just need advice on what I should do about this situation.

2006-11-28 03:47:39 · 16 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

and who could still potentially be a client in future? We have chatted on e-mail so should I wait for him to ask me out or should I assume that he does not want to turn a business relationship to a personal one?

2006-11-28 03:46:42 · 4 answers · asked by Gaia 1 in Singles & Dating

am talkin about infidelity why do women cheat on there men

2006-11-28 03:45:54 · 42 answers · asked by joenavelh 1 in Singles & Dating