My husband just got a new job that requires him to work longer hours (lot more money being made though!!!) I've had such a b*tchy attitude since then though cause I feel like I barely see him. I know its wrong cause he trying to do the best thing for me and the kids. How should I make it up to him??? I knows he's not to happy with the attitude. Should I give him awsome sex, a super clean house, make him his favorite dinner, get the kids outta the house for the night so we have some quiet, or should i just do all of the above plus some more????
2006-11-28 03:55:44 · 22 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All of the above, sweetie....let him know that you support him and that the two of you are a team! It's funny, I just went through a similar experience...
2006-11-28 03:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kenny G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do all of the above and tell him that you're sorry you've been kind of bitchy lately, it's just that you barely see him anymore. It will mean alot to him if you acknowledge what you've been doing and tell him how much you appreciate what he's doing for you and the kids. A man needs to hear these things sometimes.
2006-11-28 12:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Tex, That best thing to do,is have your children stay with a relative or a close friend. Then you want to cook him his favorite meal with candle light and a chill bottle of wine.Wear something really sexy to really set the mood. Let your husband know, just how much you really love him.Tell him your sorry for your behaivor,and you miss him alot since he started his new job.
Clowmy
2006-11-28 12:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start giving him spontanious BJs to completion. Give him a good show with good eye contact. Make this a regular part of life. After he is "done" look him in the eye and thank him.
He will love this new attitude.
2006-11-28 13:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his fantasy is. Then don't be shocked or judgemental. Then help him make it come true. That is the best gift a wife can give her husband. I told my wife mine and she agreed to make it come true for me. I can't tell you what it is on here, but you can e-mail me at pistolpaulyr2@yahoo.com if you care to know. Good luck and remember Xmas is just around the corner.
2006-11-28 12:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do what you propose, but also talk to him and let him know the reason that you've been acting this way and that it's not his fault. Tell him you're supportive and that you love him.
Everything should be fine from there.
2006-11-28 11:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should do all of the above, but more importantly tell him you love him and you know the extra hours are to benefit the family, but that you miss him.
2006-11-28 12:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes to all and throw in an over the top "BJ"
2006-11-28 12:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by metalbu11dawg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say i am sorry, I just you being home. You don't have to go to excess in making it up, but do spend some quality time together.
2006-11-28 11:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-28 11:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋