Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

I am 32 and when i was 18 i charged my cousins husband with sexual assault. At the time my mom took my cousins side and my dad did nothing. i still charged him and hid my anger. since then i have been told "he wasnt a real pedophile cuz he only did it to me" and that he didnt do much and that he paid his dues by being suspended from his job and not being able to go to the states. all this from my mom. should i talk to them now that im finally dealing or should i cut them off?

2006-11-28 04:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by care_bear1108 2 in Family

2006-11-28 04:35:26 · 4 answers · asked by cheri p 1 in Family

I have been doing better than i usually do when it comes to this stuff but it is just so stressful because i'm in the process of moving.I have to do a million and one things all by myself and it's driving me crazy!!I have no one to help me out and no one to even talk to so i can get a little stress of my shoulder.What do you do to help keep things organized and stress-free,while making sure everything gets done in a timely manner?I have to be ready to move by friday and i still have to pack,clean the house and take care of a baby that cries everytime i'm trying to do something and i have to put her down.

2006-11-28 04:34:43 · 14 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I tell this girl the truth or not?
I was at a party when this girl that is a friend of a friend was talking to me, now I wasn't flirting I was just being my normal self,.but I in no way was trying to hook up with her. Well as the night went on she came out of no where and tried to kiss me, i began to push her away but my friend interruped it like as soon as it started, it was one of thoes split second things so she thinks that I stopped because of him...but honestly I just didn't want to. Now she got my number from my friend and calls me asking me to hang and she tells me how funny and cool I am and how we should go out. she admits she likes me but i told her im not looking for a relationship. She wants to know why,She says we can just "hook up" w/ no strings Should I tell her its because she is overweight and I find that really unnattractive, because thats the truth. It grosses me out.She obviously wants some explanation. and the more parties i see her at the more she tries

2006-11-28 04:34:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well just people always mount pressure on people to get married. in my country its a real big deal.

2006-11-28 04:33:43 · 14 answers · asked by bombom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 04:33:14 · 32 answers · asked by vinny_the_hack 5 in Friends

2006-11-28 04:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by cheri p 1 in Family

Just curious if being the "dark" chapter in someone's diary lasts a long time...thanks!

2006-11-28 04:32:45 · 10 answers · asked by Kenny G 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother and father do not speak, he left her before I was born. I have developed a very healthy relationship with him over the years as an adult. i plan on getting married this year and my stepfather (who raised me since age 5) called to say that "You know you can't put your mother and your father in the same room together, she couldn't handle it." My fiance and I have a much closer relationship with my birth father's family than my mother and stepfather's. I know my mom is totaly freaked out to even see him but it means alot to have both there. I just dont even know where to begin with wedding planning.

2006-11-28 04:32:44 · 11 answers · asked by ♥monamarie♥ 5 in Weddings

Cause i was looking for a woman

2006-11-28 04:32:13 · 3 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the story of you and your first love? How old were you when you went out, how long did the relationship last? Why did it end? How long did it take you to get over them?

2006-11-28 04:32:06 · 14 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time and been throught a lot but i seem to be "falling" out of love but i dont wont to let him go and i think hes not in this relationship for love i dont even know when he say he love me it is real should i let him go?

2006-11-28 04:32:01 · 10 answers · asked by jesse 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is in jail until febuary. adnd i kind of wnated to write to him. i wanted to know how i get the info (like inmate number, cell number ext...)

2006-11-28 04:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by Jenna_and_Dustin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and feel bad about even dating this young man I just wanted to feel loved and needed since my marriage failed and also other relationships I have had. I know there was no future with this young boy and I feel its his lost because I was trying to show him different things not sexual but life in general. I just need to know how I can stop feeling guilty and foolish for what I have done. I am going to let this go because I can and will do better. Thanks for the advice.

2006-11-28 04:30:09 · 8 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

SO this guy i'm kinnnd of dating well.. we're talking our first "date" is thursday. we've hung out. and talk a lot but yet to go on our "date". anyway.. he mentioned how good of a cook he was. i said "i'll be the judge of that.." meaning he could make me something :)
his reply was
"perhaps ill cook you something, havnt decided yet. plus i wanna know what i get out of it. :)"

uhmmmm...... hahhhaha
i was thinking of some smart remark. but what........
(because hes not getting what he thinks hahaa)

2006-11-28 04:29:46 · 7 answers · asked by Natalie H 1 in Singles & Dating

If there is a panty raid from a Frat on a Sorority, is it proper etiquette the guys give the panties back?

2006-11-28 04:29:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who is it...in you real life or fantasies...that takes your breath away the second you see them...and why? can't be your spouse bf/gf or significant other... think HARD people :)

2006-11-28 04:28:32 · 10 answers · asked by tracy2426 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she does not like me and she never care to speak to me, but my husband is in Iraq and his mom is close to him he want us to be connected but I dont want to

2006-11-28 04:28:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know sometimes it's done just because a woman is mad. Sometimes though it's like "My hubby is so lazy. He never takes out the trash. He doesn't appreciate me. We never go out anymore. I'm just going to withhold sex until he comes around." Does that really work? I'd imagine he would only dislike you more and want you less. Why not go the other direction with it? Say "Take out the garbarge, my beloved, and I shall do such and such." You fill in the blank. You'd be turning a lose/lose into win/win wouldn't you?

2006-11-28 04:27:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean were not blood related so it shouldn't be a problem right?

2006-11-28 04:27:01 · 24 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

Today at high school i heard some kids talking about beating me up and some of them keep threating but they havent yet. They keep looking at me they siad that i was being nasty to there girldreind when i havent siad anyhting! What do i do?? do i tell the school or just hide?? if i tell the school the boys mite beat me up for grassing them up what do i do??

2006-11-28 04:26:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I thought this girl liked me, I mean she kept really close to me during our first date and then emails me the next day saying she like to meet up again. I try to play it cool and waited a week before I got back to her, but then when i asked to hang out she said she was busy. But then I got a call from her because she wanted to say hi so I thought oh, I'm still good, but I waited a week again to ask her out and she say she was busy for next three weeks so I waited and then finally met up with her again but she doesn't seem to warm up to me anymore...what happened?

2006-11-28 04:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even though I always felt like a woman, I was born as a guy. It's been 4 years I've been subjected to a surgery to change my sex. Ever since I decided to start my life over. I moved to another town where nobody knew me and I met an amazing guy. We're together for 3 years and we've jut got married. However, I keep that secret from him. I never had the courage enough to tell him the truth because I'm afraid of him to leave me if he ever finds out and I love him too much to risk losing him. But I'm afraid that sooner or later he's gonna find it out eventually. So I don't know what to do about it. He's starting to talk about having children and I'm afraid this might be the beginning of my problems to keep hiding the truth from him. What should I do actually?

2006-11-28 04:24:43 · 49 answers · asked by Myself 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 04:24:24 · 4 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Singles & Dating

Please take time to answer.
Why do you want to get married,then turn around and cheat on them?

2006-11-28 04:24:17 · 29 answers · asked by d2poolplaya 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know if any girl really loves you ?

2006-11-28 04:23:39 · 18 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

What about the case when they are friends?

A lot of people said that sometimes guys are mean to girls (obviously immature ones) because he likes her - but what if he's mean to a friend?

Mean = teases, or reluctant to compliment etc - not mean as in abusive!

2006-11-28 04:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex is on my mind, I have strong days where I hold my head up high and laugh about it but inside it hurts so much. I haven't felt this way before, will it ever go away? I don't understand how I can feel oh and then it just turns around.

2006-11-28 04:22:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 04:22:27 · 17 answers · asked by Djenny A 1 in Singles & Dating

My little cousin is now 8 years old and i am taking care of him till his mom can do so.I have baby sat for him for a long time probably since he was born.Anyway he has a habit of rubbing or massaging my butt when he was little it was funny but know at 8 its not especially when he does this in public.He is a shy kid and i think its a strange security thing.

2006-11-28 04:22:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family