Today at high school i heard some kids talking about beating me up and some of them keep threating but they havent yet. They keep looking at me they siad that i was being nasty to there girldreind when i havent siad anyhting! What do i do?? do i tell the school or just hide?? if i tell the school the boys mite beat me up for grassing them up what do i do??
2006-11-28 04:26:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you are being bullied tell your parents and your teacher hunni
2006-11-28 04:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullying and threatening is wrong - regardless of the "why".
Tell a friend and then speak with the school counselor.
This way, you have made notice to someone should something happen.
These people should then be held accountable for any actions they take.
In this day and time, many sadly have learned that you can cripple someone mentally as easily as physcially.
It is easy to sound "big and bad" when mouthing and appearing to have backup.....but action is something different.
Either way, do not hide if you have done nothing wrong for this only empowers them.
Go right on about your business for as things go with kids, they will move on to something else soon.
But be cautious not to be isolated for you never know.
Talk with your parents about this also - for if this has gone on for more than one week this is an issue!
Take care!!
2006-11-28 04:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least talk to your guidance councelor or principal. Bullying in school will not be tolerated nor should you have to endure it. Why should you have to hide from these people? You have a right to not have to worry about someone beating you up and be able to feel safe and comfortable at school. If they do beat you up for reporting them then at least you have it documented prior to so that your school can help you with assault charges. Hopefully they will get the hint the first time and will just leave you alone.
2006-11-28 04:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, J am going thirough a similar situation.I am going to have to grass on someone as they are going to start really intimidating me as they know I am vulnerable,after they figure out that I am not hanging around with them anymore .But I know that I will have to tell someone when the time comes as If I dont things will just carry on getting worse and worse without any thing coming to a head.Even though I dont really want to as I am very much oppossed agianst doing such a thing I know it will have to be don.
2006-11-28 04:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by nachomanhulk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach one of the boys when he is by himself one of the quieter ones of the group and ask him why they think you have been nasty to their girlfriends and if you have not been nasty to them tell them they have got it all wrong it is not true. Dont get angry or say anything out of order just be polite. you could do this to several of the group one at a time dont tell them you are scared just tell them you want to put things straight. you will find out that by there selfs they are not so big. Then just stay out their way and their girlfriends. Good luck
2006-11-28 04:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it,you've got a choice in the matter;
You can either tell someone "parents,a teacher,the principle" that you over heard the boys talking about beating you up,and by that you would've stood for yourself.
or you can just hide,or try to avoid running into them.
but let me tell you something,even if you didnt tell on them or if you did,they'd still have you in mind.
so I highly advise you to say something.
Good luck! :)
2006-11-28 04:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your principal and tell him/her what these kids are threatening. If you stick up for yourself by telling someone of authority, your risk of being "beat-up" will be lower than if you say nothing at all.
Tell your parents and school authorities now!
2006-11-28 04:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell somebody. Do not hide it. We hear too many stories, about how no one told and somebody ends up really hurt or worse.
Don't be scared. Tell somebody right now!!
I wish you all the best.
Love
2006-11-28 04:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by claudine sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE KARATE CLASSES... THAT WAY IF THEY DO COME AT YOU AT LEAST YOU CAN PROTECT YOURSELF NOW A DAYS IF YOU DON'T FIGHT BACK EVERYONE WILL PICK ON YOU I HAVE A 12 YEAR OLD SON WHO IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD START A FIGHT AND MY SON HAS WALED AWAY FROM ALOT OF THEM BUT IF YOU GET HIT YOU HAVE TO DEFEND YOURSELF..GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-28 04:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by shannon c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt tell the skool because they dont do ****..but i would just my friends tgether go over there and fight them..who ever wins wins..and dont be afriad to lose a fight because everyone does at least once in there life...and dont hide it makes you look like a p****y
2006-11-28 04:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by little_attractive_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call their mama a fat slag, and tell em if they come near you; ya dad will blow their knee caps off. stand up for yourself, dont let em take the piss. if it comes to fighting, go for the guy who runs the show, soon as he is on the deck, they will run away.
2006-11-28 04:29:50 · answer #11 · answered by stringostar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋