I thought this girl liked me, I mean she kept really close to me during our first date and then emails me the next day saying she like to meet up again. I try to play it cool and waited a week before I got back to her, but then when i asked to hang out she said she was busy. But then I got a call from her because she wanted to say hi so I thought oh, I'm still good, but I waited a week again to ask her out and she say she was busy for next three weeks so I waited and then finally met up with her again but she doesn't seem to warm up to me anymore...what happened?
2006-11-28 04:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was good that you waited a week but you should have added something like you have a lot to do, you dont want to come across as too needy and like you dont have a life, i say at this point just ask her if she want to get together if she makes an excuse move on
2006-11-28 04:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by sevenandahalf7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought she may have a BF and just maybe you were someone for her to hang out with until he started to act right. she knows hes going to mess up again, so shes busy for the next couple weeks.
you have 2 options: 1. Go chill with someone else until see calls and don't wait a week to call her back or 2.move on, Get over it.
2006-11-28 04:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by matchbox 78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were showing mixed signals, and women dont want 2 be bothered with that. Either u like them or u dont. You appear to be a little arrogant because u only mentioned how much SHE liked YOU, not the opposite. When dealing with a woman, try not to show toooo much arrogance @ first(even if u are arrogant like Ravishing Rick Rude) cuz just like us men do, a woman will find someone else to satisfy there needs, especially emotional.
2006-11-28 04:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mass Appeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You waited to long in-between times to talk to her/ask her out. You're throwing her off that way and giving out mixed signals. If you want her, show her right away and go get it!!! Or the next time you wait it may be too late. By doing what you're doing she probably feels like you're playing games and aren't to be taken seriously. If your serious, get on it and act like it! Good luck!
2006-11-28 04:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by DajaVu07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man why did you wait so long a few days mabey but a few weeks come on she doesnt think your intrested or that you have others along with her be honest tell her how you truly feel
2006-11-28 04:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u wait a week to hang out with her?
2006-11-28 04:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very actual; extremely actual. i'm thoroughly indecisive. BQ: sure, some instances easily and each so often i don't think that they are constantly the main suitable judgements yet i'm so impulsive at instances, that it style of feels actual on the 2nd.
2016-12-17 17:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a week is a long time
you should of called her earlier
maybe she thinks your not interested in her
and shes trying to do the same thing
i think you should pay more attention to her
2006-11-28 04:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were playing too cool for her. in fact you were playing too arrogant. so forget her. you were just so successful in turning her off. :)
2006-11-28 04:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better wait and see
2006-11-28 04:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by cuz he will die soon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋