What about the case when they are friends?
A lot of people said that sometimes guys are mean to girls (obviously immature ones) because he likes her - but what if he's mean to a friend?
Mean = teases, or reluctant to compliment etc - not mean as in abusive!
2006-11-28 04:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, some guys tease girls and don't give them compliments because it is the oposite of what girls expect. Girls expect guys to give them lots of compliments and be nice to them, but they like it when a guy teases them because he is different.
And teasing or not giving complimets is not immature, it is just what we do to catch your attenion and make you be more attracted to us out of all the "nice guys", thank you for proving the point that girls expect a guy to be nice and give compliments.
2006-11-28 04:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I want to say that I've been misunderstood at times, people take me as rude or mean when I'm just attempting to be funny.
Maybe your mean friend is just teasing to be fun, but isnt doing a great job. Sometimes you have to tell someone that they're hurting your feelings.
Realize if you like the guy then probably you are getting your feelings hurt becuase the stakes are higher. Here is this guy poking fun or teasing you and you're getting hurt.
Just let him know that he's hurting your feelings. See how he takes it if he tells you to F off then let him know you're being serious. If he still persists, then let him know you will be spending less time around him because he's upsetting you.
Good luck, don't take him so serious, if he cares he'll curve his behavior if not, find another friend...
Good luck.
2006-11-28 12:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's his way of flirting. I'm a girl so not best to answer this.
All I know is that my boyfriend who was my friend first still teases me to this day - I just tease him right back. For some people I guess it's a form of affection?
2006-11-28 12:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a possibility that he doesn't like you the way your interpreting his actions towards you. Sometimes some women have a tendency to misinterpret the vibe. If he does like you, sit back and let him come to you.
2006-11-28 12:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by inigma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny girls for some reason like mean guys .... see the few girls that i was actually nice to treated me like s-h-i-t and the ones i was mean to feel in love explain that and mabey we can answer your question
2006-11-28 12:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you have no sense of humour and you are insecure if you need compliments from a friend to bolster your confidence
2006-11-28 12:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is very high school like. if u want a girl to love u then treat her like she deserves to be treated. with RESPECT! not by being a jerk...come on; it is time for a lot of guys to grow up!
2006-11-28 12:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋