me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time and been throught a lot but i seem to be "falling" out of love but i dont wont to let him go and i think hes not in this relationship for love i dont even know when he say he love me it is real should i let him go?
2006-11-28 04:32:01 · 10 answers · asked by jesse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the relationship doesnt exist,then just let him go.its not worth your time,energy and emotions.If you are falling out,Relationship is dead.Move on.
2006-11-28 04:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every relationship has its hardships but if u and ur bf have made it this far then this problem could be just another hurdle to jump over.
lets be realistic, ur bf is in the relationship for a reason, my advice would be to ask him what he has thought of the relationship up until now so u can get a good idea of how he feels about the relationship overall.
you should also be respectful not only for ur wishes but for his as well, if he's not into the relationship, i would advise that u call it quits at that point, from my past experiances, it pays to learn to recognize when ur "kicking a dead horse" so to speak..but who knows?, maybe if u took wome time apart, (but didnt lose contact) u might want to reestablish things and from that point you could be alot stronger.
keep in mind tha the beginning phases of a relationship dont last forever there jsut that, "beginnings". a relationship takes work, commitment and communication and love. If you guys both want this to work out, use that similar goal to push urselves thru and before you know it, ull feel secure in the newfound strength of ur relationship.
2006-11-28 04:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kendrix:Evolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to let him go.... You don't want to stay together and then look back thinking how much time you had wasted. It just seems like you both are ready to move on but are too afraid to admit it. Sometimes change is scary but you don't know till you try
2006-11-28 04:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Notorious Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey... In this kind of situation all you need to do is ask yourself...
Am I being fair to myself? Am I being fair to him? Should we let each other go and find out if there is someone else meant for us?
Based on what you had said there is no genuine love between the relationship? So why go on? Just be realistic... Do not decieve yourself cuz that would be impossible...
2006-11-28 04:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by ayskyubx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, then make your decision. It sounds though like you have already made up your mind...if you are falling out of love with him, just let him go. It will be easier in the long run than sticking with him now only to figure out in a few years that you don't like him.
2006-11-28 04:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kaylin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you should think about you, is it what you want?
because a lot of relationship have some problem and some people might kept silent for a while but that does not mean they hate you.
i think the best thing to do is to go out for a dinner and talk your problems that's the only way no one is going to get hurt.
2006-11-28 04:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by swetlana16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the newness of the relationsip is wearing off. It happens in marriage too.
2006-11-28 04:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't show it...and doesn't say it...then let him go...
No need to waste both your time on something thats going nowhere...
Good luck...
2006-11-28 04:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep it's time to move on
2006-11-28 04:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to him about it? i think that should be your first move. you might just be paraniod. good luck
2006-11-28 04:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by Little Southern Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋