and feel bad about even dating this young man I just wanted to feel loved and needed since my marriage failed and also other relationships I have had. I know there was no future with this young boy and I feel its his lost because I was trying to show him different things not sexual but life in general. I just need to know how I can stop feeling guilty and foolish for what I have done. I am going to let this go because I can and will do better. Thanks for the advice.
2006-11-28 04:30:09 · 8 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are wasting a lot of energy on feeling guilty. Remind yourself you had a real need and didn't do it to harm anyone. Learn from it. You have to find a way to feel that void in your life without involving others that could get hurt by your actions, this includes you. I'm sorry if you got hurt along the way. The most important thing you need to do is FORGIVE YOURSELF. I wish you happiness and love. Everyone deserves this.
2006-11-28 04:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just read your letter, woman to woman i know being in relationships
are very difficuilt especially marriages i just feel as though 18 was just a bit too young. There isn't anything wrong with wanting to move on or just having alittle fun but to me the young you have choose to
do this with was put in a very challenging position. Even though there wasn't any sex involved you'll age alone to me is just alittle to
experienced to show him life in gerneral. I can be wrong but i think you was just wanted a rebound guy but instead you chioce a baby instead. The young man is old enough to be your child. I an not judging you but if you had choosen a man around your age
or even mid 20's i would of said do your thing, but instead i feel as though you should just let him be a young man and let him live his teen years as a teenager!
2006-11-28 10:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by nee-nee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow those everyone looks so stupid, there is not any age reduce on courting. The age of consent applies to sexual activities, you could legally date a minor as long as its purely courting. surely i imagine 16 is the youngest an 18 12 months previous might want to bypass, im 17 and 15 is the youngest i'd date. although i comprehend of 18-24 12 months olds courting 14-17 12 months previous females.
2016-11-29 21:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling lonely and need a company. But you don't need a boy. You should look for a man. A boy will only make you feel more lonely....and like what you said...guilty as well.
2006-11-28 13:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be better with a 21 year old guy. Hint hint.
2006-11-28 04:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a more mature guy like me. we can have a lot of fun. im also 18
2006-11-28 04:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't choose younger guy even he is mature. they only much of playing you. but if your really want to play, why not? age doesn't matter.
2006-11-28 04:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by love is blind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're welcome
2006-11-28 04:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Pringuita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋