There's this Swedish girl on my cheffing course who I fancy, but she is rather "poker faced" and quiet. How can I coax her out of her shell? I'm at a loss here!
2006-11-28 03:53:45 · 12 answers · asked by cta_chester 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds lovely! Respect her for being cautious.
Ask her if she would like to go for a wander around a few coffee shops the weekend, to 'sample a few eateries'! Maybe even try a little duck al orange or a chicken in the basket along the way!! She may be shy, but only spending lots more time with her will allow you see the 'inner person' and her true personality may bloom!
She may well be more of an animal! Grrrrrr! than you think!
........good luck
2006-11-28 04:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by My name's MUD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isnaturally shy then there is not much you can do but to be patient. let her see you are a caring sort of person, with a great personality, act positive whilst around her, try to make her laugh but at the same time don't force the issue. you write that you"Fancy her" but she is rather pokerfaced and quiet, well isn't that one of her endearing features? if you were to change her she would be different wouldn't she? not the person you fancy at present. but remember opposites DO attract. good luck.
2006-11-28 04:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Funny ...Make her laugh ....thats so attractive in a man.
By making her laugh, that shell will slowly fall off her.
Try have a little joke between you too so every now you can give her the wink and make her giggle.
Then when she is totally comfortable with you link her arm with yours and say "How do you fancy a drink and a giggle after college, you can teach me how to make my swedish balls meaty, I mean Swedish Meatballs"
Good luck babe,
x
2006-11-28 04:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
permit me see if i ought to grant you an all-encapsulating answer on your question in many areas. i like a girl to have great type that shows that she is rather dignified. positioned on clothing that throughout good shape and make her seem pleasing and horny. positioned on her hair severe high quality that stunning accomodates her hair texture and facial expression. positioned on makeup basically sparsely and not seem such as you took a protege of Tammy Fay Baker. easily the type you opt for for relies upon on what style of guy you attempt to entice and the way plenty message you prefer to deliver out. First you would be able to desire to define what you're in seek of for in a guy after which confirm the thank you to gown to entice that guy.
2016-12-17 17:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by chappie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself!!
You sound like a cool guy, so I am sure things will be fine. Start making conversation with her, offer her help etc.. to find an icebreaker. Has she got a guy? Check that out too. If she don't, you are in the clear!! Go for it babes. Life is short, and if you like somebody, tell them now. Sending you score vibes!!! Go get your woman!!
Love
2006-11-28 04:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a face lift and a personality she probably doesn't want anything to do with you leave the poor girl alone
2006-11-28 03:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ivan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out for a casual drink .... but PLEASE dont take her to the White Horse in Handbrige or Clubbies... as they are cr*p and wont leave a good impression ... if you can afford it take her to Old Common Hall (if its still called that) down the alley way near coast on bridge street...
And let me know if you do so i can come and watch the horror unfold.... hehehehehehe
2006-11-28 03:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look on the Swedish yahoo site and learn some swedish words,
like good morning how are. that will get you started. never fails, show something that will interest her !
2006-11-28 03:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by internat y 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly i'd suggest you ask her to hang out then do something crazy and make her laugh then she should come out of her shell and be a lot more comfortable...
just find something silly,funny,crazy,amusing to do dont be afraid to look like a fool humor is the best way to get someone to relax and be comfortable and be themself around you
2006-11-28 03:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by arei 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start a food fight. Everyone loves a good food fight and she'll probably be the first one in there chucking the pies about.
2006-11-28 06:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋