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Ok, my fiance and I just recently had a baby, during the pregnancy he treated me really badly, he would call me names and put me down and yell at me and try to control me ALL the time. Well when it came sooner for our baby to be born he calmed down a LOT. Well just recently he is starting to be his old self again, and I do not want to go through it again. Our deal was for him to get a job and I will be a stay at home mom, well today we had a fight and he is thinking about leaving me, and I told him fine but I am taking our baby and he said that he will take me to court and he WILL get him because he will have a job. Well I have some proof of the stuff he did to me during my pregnancy, and I dont want to lose my baby, I love that boy more than anthing in the world, if we were to break up and if he did take me to court, is there a chance that I will get to keep my baby and them not give him to my fiance? I dont want my baby growing up like him!

2006-11-28 03:53:54 · 4 answers · asked by this_is_me444 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Just becuase he has a job, doesn't mean that he will get your baby. Chances are you all will have a visitation shdule to work out. To totally take a child from one parent or the other, the parent would have to be proven unfit. And if you have some proff that he abused you while pregnant, you shouldn't have any worries.

Really if you don't want your son to grow up like him, then you should leave him.

2006-11-28 03:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by his wife 4 · 1 0

Actually, chances are you will receive custody of the baby. Especially if you have proof of his actions. I would encourage you to get out of this situation today. Do not wait. It sounds as if it could become dangerous. Don't let him bully you. The judge will generally place the baby with the mother, and actually since you are not working and he is that works towards your favor since you have been the primary caregiver. Good Luck!

2006-11-28 04:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Shel 2 · 0 0

the court will give the child to the most responsible parent have you a home job or daycare you will have to prove to the court you are the better parent and able to provide shelter for him and a decent home for him

2006-11-28 04:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0 0

You are not married - your baby cannot be taken from you in any court that I know of. You two need to see a couselor soon....Good Luck

2006-11-28 04:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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