Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

Is there a small town out there with these features importnant to me?
1) Very low crime rate.
2) Small, quiet town.
3) Fairly warm year round.
4) IT jobs available with decent pay.

2006-11-28 03:29:39 · 6 answers · asked by jgbarber65 3 in Family

2006-11-28 03:28:27 · 18 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Singles & Dating

i have loose skin bunched up under the head and when i piss the the urine irritates the scar even if i wipe it off. also when i get hard my frenulum stretches and hurts a lot. should i get recircumcised to remove the frenulum and rest of skin?

and i went to my GP and she referred me to a urologist. my apt is dec 6. but the thing is i emailed her with the problem and she replied back and was kinda mean and no help. shes like "i would go back to the urologist who did the surgery..." but the thing is he is at a diff kaiser which is further away from me and this one is more convinent. and plus i emailed him with this problemsTWO months ago and he still hasnt gotten back to me. so honestly i dont want some guy checking me over and possibly doing another surgery on me who cant even respond to an email. and then that urologist said "i doubt theres anything ill be able to do for on at yuor apt..." i told her in the email about my other urologist too. and why is there nothing she can do for me

2006-11-28 03:27:50 · 5 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

hes a new inclusion in my friend circle.. should i buy him a gift? or a card? i dont know much about him to tell his likes and dislikes but i dont want to sound rude. what should i do.

2006-11-28 03:27:01 · 11 answers · asked by greenprincess 5 in Friends

Surely all relationships with the opposite sex are based (at least to begin with) on having sex. If it was all about companionship then everyone would be happy with a puppy, or we would make do with sharing a flat with a bunch of idiotic mates.

Every woman I've ever been with or fancied, I have wanted sex with. Those I haven't fancied I've only been friends with.

And I don't believe that women are any different either, they might just not want it quite as much as us men is all. Although having said that, I've known women who have always seemed to want it.

2006-11-28 03:26:38 · 31 answers · asked by Gilligan 5 in Singles & Dating

i cant help myself i attack him for no reason and i dont know why

2006-11-28 03:26:32 · 30 answers · asked by LISA B 1 in Singles & Dating

well, he is my fren.. we r in same course at university..

i like him.. in fact my feelings go a bit deeper than just "liking"..

he doesnt know..

i dont know about his feelings either; i dont want to ask him either.. coz if i ask him and he says NO, then i will feel very uncomfortable in his presence..

well, he txts me often.. asking this, asking that, etc.. he starts texting first most of the time..

he tells me things about himself, like things others dont know abt him, like things about his private life, his family etc..

recently, a fren told me he is interested in my fren.. i jokingly askd him if i should set this up for him? he started clarifying himself & told me he doesnt like the gurl.. he also asked me "why i dont trust him? why i trust others?"

he usually teases me about a guy.. (who is also in our course and i am quite close to him--only as fren!)

what do u think?? he likes me? or is there anything else more than that?or is it just frenship...?

Thanx

2006-11-28 03:25:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a question for you guys.
I am a young lady, and I have been dating a man 6 years older than me for four months. I made an advance on the first night, and it went from there, at first he said nothing but kind things. Now he has become a control freak and doesn't even want to see me. He says I don't give him a chance to miss me, but it has been three weeks (yeah you know.) He claimed I am a perfect fit and has said before that I am a keeper and he could possibly fall in love with me, but he is a super serious guy and says he doesn't love many people. He hates almost everybody and is not very socialable. He doesn't care if people don't like him, but he is an amazing person. He was in the marines for three years and has been trained in martial arts his whole life. We were almost inseperable at first, now we don't even talk. Should I leave him alone? I need to tell him how i feel because I love him, but I don't think he loves me...Can you help me understand him?

2006-11-28 03:24:50 · 4 answers · asked by amy-j 2 in Singles & Dating

both my family and working place (teacher in occupation) have same value in my life, better to say first comes my family and then working place , but it is also true that work is also important to maintain my family.

2006-11-28 03:23:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I thought I knew my wife. She is quiet, reserved, out going on occations, loves to stay home and watch movies...etc. When ever I suggested we go out and do stuff (camping, dancing etc) she would always prefer to stay home. Now she is asking for a divorce and says she wants to be a different person. Outgoing, adventurous and says its my fault that we are not that way. What gives?

2006-11-28 03:23:56 · 8 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I never really realized it until a few months ago when i tried it when an online friend who was into them had me try some stuff. I like to rub them along my clit, or wrap them around my 2 middle fingers and finger myself with them. Also I love to imagine them wrapped around a guys 'member' when he is sliding deep inside me. I guess i just like the smooth cold feeling. I also LUV guys with panty fetishes (no not meaning they like panties on girls, who the hell doesnt ) meaning they like to use them to masterbate as well. Also....you think i could maybe sell these panties if i had pictures showing proof that i really used them? I have a few pics of me using a dark purple pair, but i cant sell those I've already washed them. But in the future you think it'd work?

2006-11-28 03:23:46 · 13 answers · asked by emily_dotdotdot723 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by jessica j 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:21:29 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for four years to the only woman whom I have ever truly been in love with. I assisted wife in locating an ex-boyfriend for the purposes of inviting him to a family event. He had been been considered 'part of the family'. Wife went out of town for work about six weeks ago. When she returned, something was off. I asked , and she admitted to having gone to dinner with and returning to her hotel room with the ex-boyfriend. In the interim, we have talked, established a stronger, closer bond. She says that she did not intend for things to happen the way they did, she would never leave me, that she loves me and is closer that she has ever been to anyone; a re-birth of our love.
I know that they still talk on the phone. She says that they are friends, she still has feelings (not sexual) for him, but that they would never work together. Is it being confident and assured to allow this or am I being duped? She is a bad liar, as such I feel can trust what she says

2006-11-28 03:21:10 · 22 answers · asked by Devoted Husband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 03:20:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:20:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that is very confused, she's married and loves her husband but at the same time she's having an affair with a guy she's always been in love with for over 10 years, she's known him longer than her husband.This has been going on for almost 3 years and she hasn't been caught. I really care for her and don't want her to get hurt when she gets caught cause then she'll loose both.She says she loves both of them...
She's thought about divorcing, but she says she loves her husband and she couldn't go thru with it.

2006-11-28 03:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by Pixie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

it was on good terms, just grew apart and we both knew it. Anyway, she kept the ring, said she wanted it as a memory, I however still have the wrap. Should I ask for it back or just forget about it, I still love her very much and don't want to be heartless?

2006-11-28 03:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by mickeys12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is really getting on my nerves lately. Every time we talk or are together he tries to act like he is so cool and a big shot and it is really starting to annoy the crap out of me. I don't know who he is trying to impress but he is always trying to act like he is so rich and cool and just all that and he isn't! I never encourage this behavior so I do not know why he feels it is necessary. He is like that to me, his friends, clients... It is all a big Yawn. I don't know if I'm just over the relationship or if he is just to immature for me. We've been together for awhile and everything else about him is fine. How can I tell him to cut it out without starting an argument.

2006-11-28 03:19:08 · 20 answers · asked by Freespirit 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:18:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If your bf never says he loves you, and never calls you or comes to see you, then does he love me? I love him, but I have never told him, and if we do talk we never say it to each other. Should I tell him, even though it has only been four months and he might not love me? He is a super serious guy, and I feel we are on the verge of a break up. What should i do?
I love him, and i really want to tell him, but i don't think he wants to see me. Everytime we see each other I leave with my feelings hurt? Is it worth it?

2006-11-28 03:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by amy-j 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by are u ready for dx then suck it! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 03:15:26 · 6 answers · asked by isthisinuisetoo 2 in Singles & Dating

Want to learn from student behaviour and thinking process..

2006-11-28 03:12:58 · 30 answers · asked by nestleanurag 2 in Friends

2006-11-28 03:12:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think that we underestimate the power of our "jewels" and even if we were to strike for just a week, we could bring men to their knees.

2006-11-28 03:12:00 · 15 answers · asked by Wasabi36 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughters friend grandma just died and my daughter is asking me for advice to tell it to her friend what do i tell her?? they are both 12

plz help thanx anyway

2006-11-28 03:12:00 · 5 answers · asked by lovely person 2 in Friends

Do any of you have photography horror stories? What would you do differently? What would you suggest to other soon-to-be brides and grooms?

2006-11-28 03:11:51 · 7 answers · asked by wrtrchk 5 in Weddings

So, after having a couple very fun 3somes with my wife and my girlfriend my wife wants me to give up my girlfriend. I'm not sure where this came from as my wife swears she had fun with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is pretty hot and does a few things my wife isn't really into, but well, my wife is my wife. Do you think I should ditch the girlfriend and stick to just the wife, or do you think I could continue to see her on the side and just tell my wife I ended it or finally I guess I could just find a new girlfriend? This is gonna be a tough one.

2006-11-28 03:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i had a question on why my boyfriend feels that he needs to think about stuff. Ok at the moment we are not together we agreed on not seeing other ppl ive kept my word but dont know if he has too.

Well since the "Thinking" talk (1 wk ago) hes been sweeter than ever he now calls more we have been intimate since it was a 2 yr and 1/2 relationship so yeah,.

Things have been the same i had Thanks Giving Dinner in his house he presented me as his girlfriend to one of his new friends.He got a call from his friends and he told him oh im just here with my girlfriend watching t.v.

But when i ask him why not be together he sais im thinking. so i question him on him seeing someone else and he sais no im thinking about my life i want to get my life straight give me a couple of wks.

This is all my fault since i broke up with him what to do?hes confusing me i dont want to be his "friend" i want to be his girlfriend he sais is nothing like that just to give him time IM CONFUSED

2006-11-28 03:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating