2006-11-28 03:28:27 · 18 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes u should ask them how they feel about u first. u cannot ask somebody to be ur boyfriend or girlfriend if there is no love involve.
2006-11-28 03:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell them FIRST? What do you know about them at this point - the way they look. You might be friends and you might think you know that person, but you don't know them in the context of bf/gf love. You have to get to know them in that type of relationship before you know whether you love them or not. You can like them, but not love quite yet.
2006-11-28 03:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by princess_j2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf told me he loved me after one month of dating and being 2geda. Before the word love we used the word like. He said he love me from the beginning but he didnt want 2 scare me. Thats why he said 'i like you' before saying 'i love you'. If you really think you feel that way, get 2 kno the person a little b4 you say I love you. The word 'love' is not taken lightly by many people. And some people are afraid of that word. Get 2 kno the person instead of pinnin your heart on your sleevewhere it can be crushed.
2006-11-28 03:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I wouldn't do that. I think you should be in a relationship a couple of months. It takes a little bit of time to know wheather or not you love a person. It might freake them out if you told someone you "love" them before you start dating someonoe.
2006-11-28 03:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by yetterbadassdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never tell someone you love them before you start to go out. Some boys turn and run the other way when girls pull out the "L" word. It's to soon, you have to get to know him first. Just wait and you will know when to say it. But don't say it know cause yo ujust might scare this person away. When you start to say I Love You to quickly you will get your heart broke faster.
2006-11-28 03:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by shy_isha18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact it takes TIME and not something yet time to advance real, mature love. What i presumed love replaced into at age 19 and at age 30 have been completely different! It replaced into like night and day. you spot, quite everyone has different objectives in existence and different objectives whilst relationship somebody. some human beings "date" so that they are able to looking the excellent individual and cool down and marry them. some human beings, like me, date casually and in lots of cases date extra desirable than one woman at a time. in any case, it is many times a sturdy thought to "date" somebody first for awhile (a minimum of a few months) previously you start up "labelling" your relationship as boyfriend / female buddy. in basic terms tell human beings you love them once you quite do. i've got in basic terms stated "i admire you" to 3 women in my existence and once I stated it i in my view meant it. yet i've got dated dozens of ladies over my existence and honestly, you're no longer likely to appreciate any of this until you have had extra existence journey. have exciting with relationship and don't take it so heavily. Rod
2016-10-13 06:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, sometimes people get involve with someone because they like each other and if they agreed to see what will happen next, some like me I have to like and love the person before going to a relationship.
2006-11-28 03:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If you have known this person for a while, and y'all are cool like that. Otherwise, it could come off as strange and a bit...weird. I would hold off on those words for a little while. But, again, it depends on the people involved and their situation.
2006-11-28 03:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! that takes time and really meaning it...u barely KNOW the person let alone love them
2006-11-28 03:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT. don't tell them too early. sometimes they find it a little aquard if you barely start dating and you tell them you love them. Wait until you feel like you are both ready.
2006-11-28 03:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by greatpharohcesar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋