this is a question for you guys.
I am a young lady, and I have been dating a man 6 years older than me for four months. I made an advance on the first night, and it went from there, at first he said nothing but kind things. Now he has become a control freak and doesn't even want to see me. He says I don't give him a chance to miss me, but it has been three weeks (yeah you know.) He claimed I am a perfect fit and has said before that I am a keeper and he could possibly fall in love with me, but he is a super serious guy and says he doesn't love many people. He hates almost everybody and is not very socialable. He doesn't care if people don't like him, but he is an amazing person. He was in the marines for three years and has been trained in martial arts his whole life. We were almost inseperable at first, now we don't even talk. Should I leave him alone? I need to tell him how i feel because I love him, but I don't think he loves me...Can you help me understand him?
2006-11-28 03:24:50 · 4 answers · asked by amy-j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered you own question...
You need to tell him how you feel...then leave it up to him... If he loves you, he won't let you leave...
Good luck...
2006-11-28 03:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he has already left. He went three weeks without speaking to you. My gf and I are 6 years a part I am the older one I would not be comfortable not talking for three weeks in fact I would have assumed it was over after a week.
If he loved you he would not say those things. I am afraid if you tell him how you truly feel you are giving him another opportunity to take advantage.
Be smart you don't always have to show all you cards.
2006-11-28 03:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by James J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very social and ex-Marine....Not a good sign. He may have done some things in the Marines that he's having trouble dealing with. Until he deals within himself, he's not going to let you in. Sorry.
2006-11-28 03:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try leaving him alone for a couple of days, If he calls you he is interested in you if he doesn't look for somebody else.
2006-11-28 03:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Homeboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋