I have a friend that is very confused, she's married and loves her husband but at the same time she's having an affair with a guy she's always been in love with for over 10 years, she's known him longer than her husband.This has been going on for almost 3 years and she hasn't been caught. I really care for her and don't want her to get hurt when she gets caught cause then she'll loose both.She says she loves both of them...
She's thought about divorcing, but she says she loves her husband and she couldn't go thru with it.
2006-11-28 03:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by Pixie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I honestly don't believe that one can be in love, with 2 people. I do however believe that she does love one, while she is in lust with the other. For her own benefit and the sake of the others, she needs to figure out which one is which. All your friend is doing right now is being selfish. She's having her cake and eating it too. I don't think she will end this until she's forced to and the only way that is going to happen is if she's caught. You might be her friend and all but this isn't right and someone should tip her husband off, if you know what i mean.
2006-11-28 03:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend or not, she deserves the consequences of her actions.
Yes, it's possible to love more than one person at a time (romantically) but the question is why would anyone put themselves in that position?
If she REALLY loves her husband, why has she been cheating on him for 3 years? That's not love...it's deceit and betrayal.
What goes around, comes around. I hope she's prepared to reap what she's sown. Perhaps it will help her to think twice (or more) about cheating in the future...she's not going to like it at all when it's done to her.
2006-11-28 03:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is best to just listen to our friends,They have to make their own choices in life.It is possible to love two men.There may be more to this story than what you know.Finances,kids,who knows why she is staying with her husband but,she eventually no matter what happens either her husband or her boyfriend will find out and they will make the decision for her.
If her boyfriend knows then he is wrong as well and if they were to end up together there would be trust issues.
My advice is just be her friend and listen.We don't always like the choices our friends make but we are their friends and know that noone is perfect.
Good luck with your friend and i hope it all works out for her...:)
2006-11-28 03:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by shanky36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will eventually suffer the consequences of her actions...
2006-11-28 03:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is going to have to decide which one she loves more/ wants to spend rest of her life with
2006-11-28 03:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by kong here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-11-28 03:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rocklander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋