my daughters friend grandma just died and my daughter is asking me for advice to tell it to her friend what do i tell her?? they are both 12
plz help thanx anyway
2006-11-28 03:12:00 · 5 answers · asked by lovely person 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You would probably want to tell your daughter that losing a family member is hard and difficult especially if they are very close, but being a good friend and show that you are a good friend is always a good route. She needs to understand that losing someone take time to settle in their life, that losing someone like a grandmother is hard and very unsettling, so it will not be quite normal for a while. Tell your daughter to help her friend as much as friend could. For instance when my grand mother past away, all I wanted was to remember her and never forget her. So we did things she always liked when I was a child. ex: Polished her silver ware, planted flowers to remind me that she was always there. (built a photo frame for her picture) and painted rocks that had our names on it! It is good to remind them of all the good things that they did together. And tell her it will be hard and tuff, but if she feels like crying that she should always let it out and not be afraid too. It was hard as a child to lose a grandmother, but she's still very young at mind to understand all of it! May be this would help!
2006-11-28 03:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have your daughter tell her friend that she is there for her whenever she wants to talk. Even just spending time with her friend will help a lot since it'll keep her from dwelling on her loss.
2006-11-28 11:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that, her grandma was old , everybody will come on this stage, and the after becoming old he or she is invited in god house to take a take a new birth accordingly.
2006-11-28 11:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tanmay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grieving is a very personal thing. Tell your daughter to be there for her friend. Grieving is a long process- you can't just "advice" it away.
2006-11-28 11:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you tell her that she is in a better place and that one day she will see her again... tell her it's going 2 be alright you will see her again
2006-11-28 11:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋