So, after having a couple very fun 3somes with my wife and my girlfriend my wife wants me to give up my girlfriend. I'm not sure where this came from as my wife swears she had fun with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is pretty hot and does a few things my wife isn't really into, but well, my wife is my wife. Do you think I should ditch the girlfriend and stick to just the wife, or do you think I could continue to see her on the side and just tell my wife I ended it or finally I guess I could just find a new girlfriend? This is gonna be a tough one.
2006-11-28 03:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
keep the old girlfriend until you find a new one your wife likes
2006-11-28 03:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not a tough one at all. You need to dump your girlfriend for the sake of your marriage. If the situation was reversed would you like it if your wife continued to keep seeing her boyfriend. You just wouldn't so out yourself in her situation and don't be selfish. Although having said that it's not as if you lied to your wife you were open about things and she was willing enough to try. But you need to think about whether you are ready to lose your wife as that is what it might come to
2006-11-28 11:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consenting to a threesome as husband and wife typically comes with boundaries; the boundary being your wife is your wife and no one comes before here. This 2nd lady in your wifes eyes was more than not nothing more than a play toy. I promise you this marriage is over. And for you to even question what you should do speaks loudly. You are thinking not of your wife but yourself. Ending it with the other lady is the answer; cheating is discusting. Instead of cheating try to find how to be honest. Give your wife the opportunity to then make a clear decision for herself if she wants to stay with you or move on. Sounds like your wife feels that this other lady is more than what she should be and that is why she is closing this door. How would you like your wife to want another man in bed with you cuz he pleases her better than you do. Then you want no more of it and she just lies to you and continues. Oh you would be all right with that, right? Did not think so!
2006-11-28 11:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're supposed to ditch the girlfriend and stick with your wife, how would you like it if your wife had a 3 some with you and her boyfriend, and she continues to see her boyfriend?
2006-11-28 11:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by superboredom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do you love your wife? If yes then ditch the girlfriend and stop trying to be greedy.
2006-11-28 11:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nana T 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your wife..
No cheating on her..
3some is fine as long as wife agrees...
2006-11-28 11:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
more than likely because of your screen name this is just a ruse with your wife asking you to give up your gf...they are just waiting until the right moment to run off together...its a lot more fun that way.
2006-11-28 11:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋