He is mature for his age at times,but I dont think he is ready for a older woman. For example he hangs out with his friends alot and he doesnt show affection alll the time.When I ask if he is sure he wants this he says yes.I also let him hold one of my rings and he haven't had it on in two weeks when I asked him he said his mom has it but I called to ask her and she doesn't know any thing about a ring,he stormed out of the house and I haven't talked to him since last night. I am not dumb but I just need advice on what I should do about this situation.
2006-11-28 03:47:39 · 16 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Holy cow! He's USING YOU! I think he stole your ring and sold it, using you for money basically. That or he lost it. Whatever the reason is that he "no longer has the ring", you know that he lied to you about it. Storming out of the house was proof positive that he's immature. When I put both actions together, I come up with one conclusion: either dump him (and insist on the return of the ring), or insist on the return of the ring and if and when he gives it back just use him for sex. Please cut your emotional ties with him, whatever you do, and don't let him steal anything else from you.
2006-11-28 03:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by steve d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What situation are you requesting help on, retrieving you ring or to stay with this kid? BTW, he should hang out with his friends a lot, and he shouldn't show you affection all of the time because he is a kid. Nature will not allow this relationship to continue if you have to ask what should you do. As long as you stay wondering what you should do the more attached you will become to him because we are emotional and creatures of habit. Leave the kid alone lady...dang. He is just a kid.
2006-11-28 11:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by redhotmamagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being 18 is a time when all guys think they are the alpha male and indestructible and, sadly enough, immune to female charms. Seeing as how he lost that ring should tell you how disrespectful and non-trustworthy he is to you. And lying to you? You think you should keep going with it? Naw, you shouldn't trust this guy.
2006-11-28 11:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its time for you have a family and your own 13 -10 years old kids. When are you going to marry and have kids? Whe you are 40? Even now at 31 it must be hard for you to find a man who would want marry you
2006-11-28 11:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lion 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your 31 hes 18 hes a kid doing what kids do sex drugs and anything else he can he might seem mature but for real hes just a kid he has alot of mistakes to make still and you just might be one of them so be carfull
2006-11-28 11:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that age difference seems extreme to me, especially since he's only 18. You're old enough to be his mother! He's obviously not a mature adult yet, no matter if he acts like it sometimes. Has he even graduated from highschool?
2006-11-28 11:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by piratewench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a kid...if you want to play with a kid, that's fine. Otherwise, move on up to guys more your age, maturity level, and life experience.
He's barely an adult...he's still figuring out what he wants to do with his life...you're well into yours (or should be). I can't imagine y'all have much in common...
2006-11-28 11:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, we're the same age and if I was in your situation, I would just use him for sex and get a thrill out of teaching him a thing or two. Don't get hung up on this little boy, please.
2006-11-28 11:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this should be a "DREAM" come true for him! If he is not mature enough to realize his chance to expand his knowledge with you both mentally and physically, then you need to get on with your life and find another young man to share your time with!
2006-11-28 11:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What???? At 18 years old he IS NOT mature. He is doing what 18 year old guys do!!!! He's a kid! Stop robbing the cradle sicko!
2006-11-28 11:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kokolicious06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋