I have been friends with my bf my whole life even though we have only dated a year. I am 24 and he is 27 years old .Its very strange because i remeber all the girls he went through , cheated on, or dated all at once.Its been bothering me that i remeber all the faces(i met them) of those girls he slept with well over 20 i would say.I have only slept with 4 guys and they were all serious relationships.
2006-11-28 02:54:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are engaged but he thinks the reason we dont have sex that much is because i want to save the good sex for marriage when its really that i get grossed out thinking of all the dirty sluts he has been with.
2006-11-28 03:01:16 · update #1
Sounds like the mental picture is there for a reason that you may not currently understand. You may want to explore this issue with a proffesional, possibly a counselor or a therapist. They can be good at getting to those "secret messages" that your brain is sending you regarding this relationship.
The better question is...what is the function of the mental picture....what does it mean for you?
2006-11-28 03:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by cwpsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Def. know what you're talking about.
Now, before a bunch of people on here tell you he's a pig, the truth is, they don't know him or you, or your relationship!
If he's a good guy and worth keeping, then work on it. Every time you think/see their faces, think of the way he looks at you. Think of how he's been with you through it all and how special you are to him. He's with you for a reason! Don't let the memory of those girls ruin your relationship!
2006-11-28 02:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he doesn't sound like a person worth giving your heart to seeing his previous record...but who am I to judge... If you feel he is right for you and that he will treat you right, then all you have to do is train your mind to think about other things when you think about those other girls...
Its hard, but its doable... I''ve done it and it takes time... But if you really care for him don't let it ruin your possibility for happiness...
Good luck...
2006-11-28 03:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,but even though this guy is your best friend,why would you want a man like that?
2006-11-28 02:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just going to end up a mark on his bedpost..he has set too fast a pace to settle with you now, get ready for the breakup...its coming!
2006-11-28 02:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm- and you're going out with the guy, even though you KNOW he's cheated before AND slept with skanks!?!?!?!
2006-11-28 02:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by wvucountryroads 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love chicks who only date loosers and ***** and then cry about it, "boo hoo why do I do this, whoa is me hes cheating again". Hey, here's an idea Einstien LOOK FOR A GOOD MAN FOR ONCE!!!
2006-11-28 02:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
hell i think 4 is too many for your age shouldn't have been any less u have married. and your b/f is just a male slut
2006-11-28 02:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him as he is or just let it go...cuz obviously the truth hurts.
2006-11-28 02:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Virgo Fa Sho!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are having problems with trust.
the real question is do you trust him.
2006-11-28 02:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋