OKEY! TIME TO ASK FOR HELP!!
WE BOTH LOVE. I REALLY LOVE HER ALOT! NOW WE HAVE 2 PROBS.
SHE IS ENGAGED TO SOMEONE BACK HOME WHO SHE DOESNT LIKE, IF THE CHANCE GIVEN SHE COULD BREAK HER ENGAGEMENT.
NOW THE BIG PROBLEM IS THAT I REALLY RESPECT MY PARENTS THE ONLY REASON I GOT TO THIS POINT IS BECAUSE OF MY FAMILY AND THE AMOUNT OF LOVE WAS GIVEN FROM MY FAMILY.WHEN I WAS FALLING FOR THIS GIRL I WAS AWARE TAHT MY FAMILY WOULDN;T ACCEPT HER JUST BECAUSE SHE IS ENGAGED AND NOT ONE OF THOSE GIRLS MY PARENTS ARE LOOKING FOR ME SO I DONT WANNA GO TO A POINT WITH HER WHERE SHE BREAK HER ENGAGEMENT AND MEANWHILE MY PARENTS DOESNT ACCEPT HER TO THE FAMILY. I DONT LIKE RUNNING AWAY I LIKE TO GET WHAT I WANT. BUT AM REALLY CONFUSED! I WANT TO PLEASE EVERYONE AND BE HAPPY IN LIFE JUST TO MERRY THSI GIRL I LOVE:(.
ANYONE WITH GOOD iDEA? OR aDVISE?
2006-11-28 03:08:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This girl sounds a little confused if she's engaged to someone she doesn't like...why would she have said yes to the proposal? This decision should be completely up to her. She has to decide if she wants to break the engagement or not. As for your family, I know you love and respect them, but this is your life and only you can pick the person you choose to spend the rest of your life with.
2006-11-28 03:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are so i'm assuming early 20's. If you were from a family that really didn't express love or that you wouldn't really miss my advice would be follow your heart. However, you also have the obstacle of her belonging to somebody else!!!! Honey she's off limits no matter how you look at it. You will find someone else who is more suited to your family and who is not taken already. You will, i promise. Let her go now before someone gets hurt badly.
2006-11-28 03:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by 1973kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell u. I been Tru the something I Guss we have the same culture. I understand that u love u family. and the family in really important to us. But they cant forced u to do something u don't want to do it. Okay ... what about if u married the other girls that u parents like . and month letter u have a problem because there is no love nothing uncommon. u need to talk to them . u need to think about . u need to ask u r self. if u are
firs ready to married. brother. I don't know haw old are u. but u need to talk to the one u love . to stop it. I'm not ganna say. marry her with out ur parents . NO . but slow dawn. trust me arrange marriage 99% doesn't work. it happened to me. but I stooped it because its my life. u parents not ganna live with u. in fact not ganna live with u forever. u need to make a decision r life. take care if u have any Q Please fell free to ask .
married is not Essy as it seems. but with love and help from u r wife u can get true it
2006-11-28 03:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she engaged to someone she doesnt even like and if shes really in love you i think she would already broke the engagement
2006-11-28 03:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Pooh Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your family and this girl tell them about your feelings and whats going on in the end your family wants you to be happy im a girl and if i wanted you to marry me i would want to know that you would fight for my love
2006-11-29 08:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by t girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you sacrifice both you and your girl's happiness for people who obviously don't love you as much as you love them if they're not willing to accept someone that you've chosen for yourself that you love.
2006-11-28 03:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋