Should I tell him or not?

Question

I dated this guy for about 2 months and things were great we really connected and everything the only problem is that he lives 2 hrs away and he broke it off with me because of the distance.
Well he still calls me about 2 or 3 times a week and we've hung out since then but only as friends.
Should I tell him that I miss him and want us to try it out and see how it goes? Or do I just let it go?
I want to tell him but dont know if I should. Surely he still has something for me or why would he call me and tell me he wants to see me and hang out.
PLEASE tell me what's the best thing to do!

Answer 1

If he's the one who broke it off it doesn't mean he doesn't necessarily feel the same way, but he may want some space. Give him that opportunity, and yourself the opportunity to go out and see other people. Try doing new things that are fun, adventerous, and good for your mind/body like; hiking; cycling; running/jogging; go out dancing; canoeing/kayaking; or even racing. Try hanging out with new people, or taking classes (parks/recreation centers have classes that are low/no cost) such as; cooking classes, fitness classes, wood shop, metal, art, etc. Or spend more time with other friends checking out new restaraunts, or new movies that are playing. I understand how you feel because this happened with my ex-boyfriend. However, the talk didn't work for him. It was when I went out discovered a whole new me, that he became excited and decided he truly wanted to be with me. He and I are still good friends. I just realized in that time, I was better off without him. You may need this time for yourself too.

Answer 2

Honesty is always the best answer, be true to yourself.
Is money an issue, can he afford to drive to were you live? Could the two of you meet at a place one hour away from each other? Use the internet to communicate with each other until this relationship becomes stronger. Write letters to each other, send greeting cards, send newspaper articles, etc.

Many people are involved in long distance relationship, and sometimes this is good to give both parties a chance to soak in likes and dislikes about each other.

Does he live by himself? Do you live by yourself? Did not stay how old you are, there are many factors in a relationship.

Answer 3

well you should talk to him and see how ife he still feels the same way about you. and if he still does then maybe you two should give it a nother shot with this relationship. because if you dont you might miss out on a good relationship with this person. a real good relationship can withstand anything even distance between the two people. but just because he calls you still dont really mean that he still has feelings for you. he just wants to stay friends. and he doesnt wanna loose a good friend like you. maybe that is why he keeps calling you. but i hope that you two do find some way to work this out. because i dont want to see some one get hurt. well i hope that this helps your situation. email me sometime if you have any more problems.

Answer 4

You know he likes you or he wouldn't call or make time for your. The fact that he lives two hours away is nothing, unless you think it's a big deal? I would call him and tell him you enjoy his phone calls and his company and then tell him you are falling for him (straight up). You know it's not going to scare him away because he has feelings for you also. You're relationship is a game of chance and it is what you both make of it , don't be afraid be a little more daring. I'm sure things will be fine trust your instincts.

Answer 5

He broke up with YOU! So he should be the one to get you back. Are you really sure he has the same feelings as you? Maybe he thought you guys were moving to fast. I would say just live your life and just be friends. If he gets jealous of you hanging out with other people, and he wants you exclusivily he should put forth the effort and make it happen. I'm not saying play hard to get or be a jerk. But you do want to make sure he has the same feelings as you. You should want a man who would fight for you. at least a little bit.

Answer 6

Absolutely, you tell him how you feel. There is nothing wrong with a long distance relationship, honey 2 hours away isen't bad at all. I do believe that he still has feelings for you, or else why would he call you so much.
Let him know that you still want to be with him and you still miss him very much, and take it from there.

Answer 7

Tell him that you are looking for a relationship not a friendship and if he can't give you what you want then he needs to stop calling because it's just playing mind tricks with you. If he doesn't like that then move on and find someone that will give you the time and energy and repect you need in a good relationship.

Answer 8

Continue with what you've got going now. Just go with the flow. Things have a nice way of working out for the best if it's meant to be. If not, it will all blow over in a short time.

Answer 9

first the distance is not that bad. my BF used to live 3 Hrs away from me. I used to see him ones a week. sometimes I go see him too. now he live 1hrs.U know u not allways get what u want from life we just need to deal with it. and we still just fine.If he really want to see u he will came from anywhere. to see u. I don't think hes interesting on u. maybe he wants "a local booty call "sorry to say that. but that's the realty u never know what he think. so just talk to him and see. if he cares or not. u still Young and u can do batter then that.

Answer 10

Well i don't know your total situation but maybe you or him can move closer to one another. Yes he still has feeling for you bc he still calls. you should never give up on a possible love. so good luck! JUST ASK HIM. I've missed out because i was to shy to ask the question we both wanted answered.