Please read this quite small description on out day togteher: do u think she likes me: or whats up?

Question

I called and asked her 4 a date few months back she said yeah, but she took a rain check, this rain check happened like 2-3 times, tough she does call and talk 2 me whenever she has time, and she flirts so she seems to be into me, n i dig that

now the thing is shes started to hang with this other guy a bit, he was even suppose to dance with her on the fest, but she backed out - and told him 2 dance with someone else,
she spoke to me a few days after we made tentative plans, i told her to get back to me on da date, I spoke to her the next day, and she told me the club she was at - and invited me over, we danced and she kept smiling at me, and was nice to me - she had to leave later on , so her was walking forward, her stretched her hand back, and i held her hand and we walked out - i said we must do the date thing - she said sure thing and then she smiled, and gave me a hug - then walked off...

she did not, but she spoke to me after that when she met me abt anything else - and everything she even flirted with me, and sat with me on a 1hr bus ride back home, and after she said it was nice talking n shez glad we finally know a bit abt each other

Answer 1

Honestly,it sound like this girl is REALLY into head games and playing hard to get,leave her alone.Trust me,people who play head games at the beginning of a relationship will MOST LIKELY do them through out the relationship as well.

Answer 2

She likes you but most likely she won't date you for long. The problem is not her the problem is you.

From all that you wrote in your own words I am clear of one thing. You are lacking a lil bit of confidence. Woman like confident men. That is the reason she took a 2-3 rain checks on going out with you. When she did spend time she called you at her club so if things didn't go right she wouldn't be at any awkward place but a place where she is already comfortable.

When she called you she was not confident abt you. She likes you as a person as you probably are a very nice guy but she doesn't feel a whole lot of attraction towards you. In other words you don't sweep her off her feet.

learn to be more confident and act fun and smart that will keep the girl with you otherwise you will end up heartbroken or just be a FRIEND to her.

Good Luck pal.

Answer 3

it sounds like she really likes you, she was choosing you over that other guy, and that she just has a really busy life, so it's hard for her to find time for you two to hang out, or maybe she's afraid of what'll happen once you two go out on a real date.

Answer 4

are yoy afraid of asking her directly.just go ahead and ask her what you want from her.