Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

2006-11-24 00:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 00:51:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, he is in the process of a divorce. We became friends with benefits - but then he called it off until everything is final because he felt guilty. He said "god knows what is in my heart and what is in your heart, but that still doesn't make it right.." he says that he needs to push me away for MY sake (baby mama drama with his ex) and HIS sake.

So, we called off the benefits, started getting to be closer friends and I started having feelings.

Now he says that I have no chance in hell of being anything other than friends with him.

I don't think he was using me, because we hung out without having sex.

What the hell happened? I'm completely lost. Does he like me and is scared? Why did he rule me out?

2006-11-24 00:51:39 · 7 answers · asked by lickablecake123 1 in Singles & Dating

I told him but couldn't help thinking, are you sure the question shouldn't have been why and not when.

Is that sad or what?

2006-11-24 00:51:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

heres the situation my boyfriend for month now just got out of a really bad relationship and his parents dont think he is ready to date he is almost 17 the other day we were on tha phone and his mom started yellin at him in spanish and he told me he would call me back and he never did and that was a week ago and we still havent talked so about 4 days ago i called his best friend and asked if he was mad at me or if he had gottten his phone taken away and his best friend said no that he had just talked to him the day before and i kept callin him and textin him but their was no response so i just decided to give up and like 2 days ago he emailed me and told me he had gotten his phone taken away. but his bestfriend told me he didnt what should i do??? should i believe him?? i emailed him back like 3 days ago and he still hasnt emailed me back or called

2006-11-24 00:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

http://www.maggiesottero.com/
then click 'collections' and type in 'Grace'.

2006-11-24 00:49:21 · 29 answers · asked by Bridezilla 2 in Weddings

example--cute or hot? shy or outgoing? short hair or long hair? smart or not-so-smart?

2006-11-24 00:48:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ma friends and my family find it really strange that even after turning 18 i still havent found a girl yet...no im not gay...im just using my freedom of choice...and i choose to live the rest of my life like this...i m doing this cuz most of my frnds (both boys and gals) most of tha time end being **** sad after a break up...and yes i also had a major crush on a gurl once and wen i told her abt ma feelings she told me she dosent love me back...that incident made me strangely broke my heart!!!...and from that day onwards i decided to never ever fall for a gurl ever again...besides i think single ppl are way happier...k ne wez ma question is will my parents mind if i dnt marry and have children aaand do u think that wat i am doing is wrong???...if u do pls temme why?

2006-11-24 00:48:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright,me and my boyfriend do get sexually intimate at times but this time he wanted to try something new.he never done it before and i havent also.he was willing to go down on me but i said no and that it was nasty.i've never recieved it before but why do you need a tounge when you got a penis?

2006-11-24 00:48:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my 14 year old half brother is having anger problems. our dad committed suicide at xmas 2 years ago and he's gone a little bit off the rails. first he ran away, called my step mum a sl*t and threw a chair at a pregnant teacher. it is so unlike him and it makes me so sad. he started settling after my stepmum finally spoke to him about how our dad died and gave him some answers. not too long after she went on holiday and brought back a young italian bloke, they are still together after a year even though he's just had to fly home due to unemployment. my other half brother has moved out at 16 , i think he hates her and my little half sister just fights with my half brother all the time. when i visited at the weekend i witnessed my stepmum hit my half brother for giving cheek, and it werent just a slap. i was so upset i had to leave, i told her he needs counselling but she wont listen, i've moved 200 miles away recently so feel really sad and useless, what should i do?

2006-11-24 00:48:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been togather for almost a year now and we r planning a wedding soon i was gonna ask her to marry me in the spring now i dont know.

2006-11-24 00:46:18 · 34 answers · asked by Fireman69 1 in Singles & Dating

Got a date later on and was wondering if most women like a guy to wear aftershave and if so which is the best brand (so I can spray some on in the shops).

2006-11-24 00:45:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am single and it bothers me more during this holiday season.

2006-11-24 00:45:49 · 8 answers · asked by lovelyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

I almost hate myself for feeling this way, but my boyfriend of 3 years mother is SO ANNOYING. She moved 12 hours away from her home just to be 5 minutes away from us. It seems like every day she has some task for my boyfriend to do. She is perfectly healthy and capable, but acts like nothing can get done w/o his help. She stops by our home unannounced. She calls at all hours and refuses to get a life. Anything my boyfriend and I plan, she turns into a "we." I'm going mad! I've suggested to my boyfriend we move about 10 hours away to be rid of her ( well,i didn't tell him that) and he seems ok w/ it. I just need to know if I am doing the right thing, or will mama or worse my boyfriend the eternal mama's boy find a way for her to be in the middle of our lives all over again! There's nothing wrong w/ having a mom around. The problem arises when they don't understand their baby is grown and needs space!

2006-11-24 00:45:34 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki J 2 in Family

Would you ever consider learning your partner's mother tongue? If yes why would you take this step? Thank you guys!

2006-11-24 00:43:29 · 17 answers · asked by Emma D 1 in Singles & Dating

how can u tell when a boy likes u as more than a friend?!

2006-11-24 00:43:22 · 7 answers · asked by burn baybee burn 2 in Singles & Dating

Two terribly embarassing things happened infront of my new boyfriend and i cant look him in eye anymore because i cant stop thinking of them.

Here is the first one: Had too many beers when i stayed over at his,and farted in his bed which woke both of us up.

The second one is:I didnt tell him my real surname cuz i hate it so much so told him my mothers maiden name insteadbut he found out. I was stressed with the conversation and when he asked my sisters name i blanked out and didnt give him answer. He must think i'm dumb not knowing my sisters name and i didnt know what else to say but' oh my sister lied bout her name too',i felt so dumb after and he gave me weird look.

2006-11-24 00:43:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should i do if he tries 2 make a move? We are good friends but i don't know if i'm ready for that again.

2006-11-24 00:42:47 · 2 answers · asked by Book_Worm #1 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I've read all the stuff about being yourself etc, and thats fine as I'm usually pretty relaxed when talking to girls, BUT I saw such a cute girl on the train, had about 2 stations before i had to get off the train and she was giving me eyes, and I went blank. What, oh what, do you say to a girl in that kind of time frame? I mean, you can't really start a conversation and find her interests? How can you take it from "Hi" to asking her out in under 5 minutes?
I'd really like girls to answer this one, as they know what would do it for them.

2006-11-24 00:42:30 · 8 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure whether she has a boyfriend. And we're just kinda friends but not really close friends.

What should I do? Or should I do nothing?

2006-11-24 00:41:54 · 9 answers · asked by whitelighter 4 in Singles & Dating

I lied about my age to a girl I met a couple of nights ago, told her I'm 27 when I'm two years older. Dumb move, and I'm meeting her again in a couple of nights. Should I tell the truth straight away and do you think it will bother her?

2006-11-24 00:41:10 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs now and my aunt just meet him on thanksgiving for the first time. I left the two to be alone to talk and I guess in that time, she totally put him down while my mom sat there and listened and didn't take up for him at all. My aunt was calling him a "Nobody" and kept asking him if he had been to jail (which he wasn't) and was telling him that he was going to be on her"SH*#" list. And when he said we were gonna het married one day, he got no response as if he isn't good enough for me. When we got home he told me everything that was said and got upset with me for not being by his side to reassure them that what they think of him is wrong. And now I feel really bad because we are in love and my family doesn't seem to except him the way that his family excepts me. What can I do to make things better?

2006-11-24 00:40:44 · 4 answers · asked by RLL88 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is the first time my husband spent a weekend out.

2006-11-24 00:40:12 · 10 answers · asked by meg 1 in Family

My man leaves me a alot. He cannot settle with me due to the big obsticles between us. He has to choose me or his family.
He is falling apart and now is seeking councilling to deal with it all.
People say we should not be together too.
He comes to me and he is loving caring and kind.
But he is conflicting all the time. He says where he lives but says don't visit.
He gives me his phone number - then says don't call!
Over the years he has become a total mess. He is now at rock bottom.
I can't turn him away because i love and care for him.
So, can any one give me advice.
My friend thinks if every one had butted out then he wouldn't be in the state he is in now!!

2006-11-24 00:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by liz 1 in Singles & Dating

just a question

2006-11-24 00:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by mimo 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy that used to like me but we kinda live far apart, he was supposed to call me at a specific time in the morning but he hant It was kinda confusing though may be I was supposed to call him!?
If I was supposed to call him what do I say?
IF he was supposed to call me what could the reasons be he didnt!!?

2006-11-24 00:35:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it seems reliable yet someone told me you cant find a person that perfect (like greg, the author)

2006-11-24 00:34:25 · 3 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Singles & Dating

going through some really hard times, Cause her husband just died. But she's going wild with men, not paying attention to her children any more. But you have been through the same thing and know whats going on with her, Should you talk to her, and if so How do you bring this up?

2006-11-24 00:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-24 00:33:29 · 21 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I see many people spending hours in chat rooms to attract women for friendship (rarely) and for sex. I wonder, will that really work out? How a woman will be a friend or sex partner without seeing him and being with him? I feel, those guys are wasting their time. What you think?

2006-11-24 00:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by SimpleGuy 1 in Singles & Dating