Would you be humiliated by these?

Question

Two terribly embarassing things happened infront of my new boyfriend and i cant look him in eye anymore because i cant stop thinking of them.

Here is the first one: Had too many beers when i stayed over at his,and farted in his bed which woke both of us up.

The second one is:I didnt tell him my real surname cuz i hate it so much so told him my mothers maiden name insteadbut he found out. I was stressed with the conversation and when he asked my sisters name i blanked out and didnt give him answer. He must think i'm dumb not knowing my sisters name and i didnt know what else to say but' oh my sister lied bout her name too',i felt so dumb after and he gave me weird look.

Answer 1

i think both of that is totaly embarrassing.. but listen, there's something i've gotta tell u..

about the first one, i'm sure it's embarrassing, but hey, fart is a normal thing to do for every normal person. what will happened if u can't fart? i know it's easy to say than done, but i'm sure he'll okay with that. it's not like u're in the best condition right? you're drunk at that time don't u? besides, if he really loves u, he'll loves whatever you do...

now, the second one... i know, i know.. for me, it sounds bad too.. but u still can repair that... u just have to call him, or meet him, or whatever you like, and just tell him the real thing! the real issue! tell him that u dislike your surname and u just don't want him to know that bcoz you adore him, bcoz you're too shy too say that to him, your love...

weird look huh? i know... it must be hard for you... the best way is to tell him all the truth you know... don't hide anything when you're in a relationship... it'll make u feel a lot better coz u've got nothing to hide.. it's hard, i know.. but you'll need truth to build a good relationship...

good luck okay?
and here's another tip, if he leaves you, find another better guys coz he doesn't deserves your love... but if he understands everything...^^ be happy ;)

good luck!!

Answer 2

Too many beers? Farting in NEW BF bed? Lying about your surname? WOW! You're off to a roaring start aren't you? My suggestions? Stop drinking so much you fart in bed. Try waiting a little longer before climbing into ANYONE's bed! And lying is always a BIG NO-NO! You are old enough to know better than all of this Please, try and resist the urge to drink so much, or better yet, leave it alone entirely! As to farting, well, honey, welcome to the real world. EVERYONE does it! Lying? Well, I am sure we have all done it at one time or another, but its a poor practice to START a relationship with lies. Makes the idea of trusting someone VERY DIFFICULT. Your best bet, is just to come clean before this goes ANY further, and may actually help to restore trust by showing even though you lied, you felt uncomfortable enough about it to come clean ASAP. I am sure if your bf is as nice as you think he is, he will understand your dislike of your surname and may even offer some sympathy for your feelings. Do not delay in doing this as it will only show not only are you capable of lying when it suits you, but that you really don't have a conscience about it either. So take a breath and dive in, the sooner you get this done the better for you and your relationship with your newfound bf. Good luck my dear!

Answer 3

The first one is fine. I'm sure he would have preferred to be awakened with a kiss but that is fine too. I am sorry but i have to LOL
The other one kinda dumb. Why are you lying to him. You should have told him the truth. It is okay to tell him now. He may get upset but you will have a clear conscience and he will get over it hopefully.

Answer 4

I've had the first happen; it's embarrassing, but you move one.

The second is more problematic, as we veer into a trust issue.

If you fudge your name, what else are you fudging? You need to sit down and explain the reasons for what you did. That should clear the air

Answer 5

Nothing to be humiliated about that you farted in his bed. Everyone lets one rip. You can have too many beers and stay in my bed anytime ;-)

You should just tell him that you don't like your real last name, shouldn't matter to him. He likes you, not your name

Answer 6

It all depends on his reactions, has he told you that he didn't want you again? If he has not, then you need to do something about your beer consumption and hypocrisy. But I think there's NOTHING you can do to that farting. As a matter of fact, if he truly loves you, he should accept that aspect of your life as well. Please, always be proud of your identity in all its ramifications - that's the essense of your existence and sustainance.

Answer 7

Grow up, and stop lying to him! You've given him many reasons to doubt you, so just come clean with him, and maybe you can salvage the relationship. As for being humiliated, you have far more serious issues to deal with.

Answer 8

Forget about the fart. Everyone farts. Come clean about your surname though. Just tell him that you hate it. Even small lies can snowball into big ones.

Answer 9

seriously forget about the farting thing, it happens to everyone

second if you want to ruin a relationship before it begins then you need to keep lying, if you want it to work confess, but dont expect perfection when you tell him the truth, you screwed up so take responsibility

Answer 10

HaHa! Thats hilarious! dont b embarrassed, it adds character to ur new relationship! fartin is a natural and wonderful thing, but u shud have been honest bout ur name, it cnt really b that bad, and he would hav found out eventually!! Dnt sweat it hunny, laugh it off, he'll think ur funny!!