ma friends and my family find it really strange that even after turning 18 i still havent found a girl yet...no im not gay...im just using my freedom of choice...and i choose to live the rest of my life like this...i m doing this cuz most of my frnds (both boys and gals) most of tha time end being **** sad after a break up...and yes i also had a major crush on a gurl once and wen i told her abt ma feelings she told me she dosent love me back...that incident made me strangely broke my heart!!!...and from that day onwards i decided to never ever fall for a gurl ever again...besides i think single ppl are way happier...k ne wez ma question is will my parents mind if i dnt marry and have children aaand do u think that wat i am doing is wrong???...if u do pls temme why?
2006-11-24 00:48:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should be voted one of the smartest people in the world.
Live life to the fullest and feel complete as a person on your own. Don't ever feel like you aren't complete without someone in your life because you are complete as yourself.
If and when someone special comes along, that person will complement you not 'complete you'.
I wish I would have thought this way when I was 18....
2006-11-24 00:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have the right to choose your lifestyle after all it is your life. But I think that your parents will have a slight problem because when they think that when they pass away you will be lonely and noone will be there to love like they do. But please take my advise. Because you have found an a**hole girl and she broke your heart, it's not the end of the world either. There are many fish in the sea and someday you will find the right one for you I'm sure. Regarding the other question, no I don't think that you are doing wrong but if you are the type of person that loves to be near someone, example parents, friends, relatives etc. then you will find it difficult when you remain alone. Because let's face it, some day you will be alone and I'm sure of that because my uncle did the same as you are doing and when his parents died he did find a girl and married her because he couldn't stand it of being lonely. He's 44 years old and she is 24 years old. Good luck and may you find the best way to live happy.
2006-11-24 01:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and have a great deal of time, being single is not a bad thing. I think as you grow older you will probably change your mind. God will send you someone special, in the time being spend your time doing things you enjoy, and obtaining a college education. However, keep in mind that married men live longer than single men and single women live longer lives than married women. Just food for thought. And as an adult do what makes you happy and comfortable, don't worry about your parents this is your life now. Not rushing into a relationship for the sake of having one is a very good and mindful quality to have. Your parents should be very proud of you. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-24 00:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
howdy there Jordan! lol. i'm those days married and have yet one hundred million issues to locate related to the marriage existence. i'm nevertheless exploring it. Y i'm reponding to it extremely is that, while i substitute into 18, i think of such as you. nicely, my ideas are only those. issues paintings out distinctive for each individual. Being single and married have their own instruments of execs and cons. on the top of the day, i've got self belief that all and sundry could stay their existence they way they choose for, discover their innermost thoughts, desires, needs, and so on. i assume that's what you're doing precise now too - exploring. 10 years down the line, you may result wanting something distinctive than what you choose for now. yet, no longer something will ever be sure. So i assume that what i'm attempting to assert right it extremely is, existence is an journey. discover it the way u choose for. have relaxing yet don't get into too plenty difficulty, ok? I wish u stable success!
2016-11-26 19:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you live your life is your choice..if you choose not to be married or whatever is your choice..as long as your happy thats all that matters. Remember the only person living your life is you...dont let others talk you into anything...your parents are probably just worried that you are going to be lonley..and your 18 right..you got you whole life ahead of you. There is really no rush to get married.
2006-11-24 00:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? If you want to be single all your life, you have every right to do so. Now that you're 18, your family has no say in your love life. Actually, I'm proud of you for choosing this lifestyle. Love is just a distraction from what's really important.
2006-11-24 04:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem lik a rly cool person n i agree with u, but i think its kinda restricting to specifically decide to b single forevr. the way i think about things is my friends r all i rly need, so im definately fine being single, lifes a lot less stressful and has less pressure. but if i just happen to meet the perfect person n by some crazy miracle my fear of rejection n failure r somehow irrelevent, i wont fight it. it seems lik u mite hav a fear of rejection cuz of that girl, n u mite b deciding to do this so tht ull nvr b rejected again (whether u consciously no this or not)
2014-11-15 21:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Catherine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your parents need to wake up. You are only 18 and yes, certainly you have the rest of your life. You are the one that has to make the choice as to how you want to live your life. They have to learn to butt out.
Does not sound like you are ready to make the choice of what you want for your future.
You certainly need to take your time and be sure who you want to live with is the right choice.
Courts are full of people endiing bad choices. dont become s statistic.
Forget how mom and dad feel you are the one that has to make that choice it is not theirs to make.
There are too many Parents out there today trying to run thier childrens life when they become adults.
Good luck young man.
You will know when the time is right for you.
2006-11-24 00:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen dude ..this is life ..and not a fantasy world we live in ..whats the matter haven't got the bolls to take what you get dished out..what are you a ( crybaby )
the answer to your question ..your parents will mind ..
because there dream of seeing you get married and give them grand children would be destroyed ..
2006-11-24 01:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and where do you think you spend the rest of you DAYYYYS if your old already? I mean ages 70 and above. home for the aged? Oh man you need someone to take care of you. yes being single person is lots of fun and full of adventure, its just so happened that you still did'nt met the woman that is destined for you, maybe you'll meet her half of your way. Just believe in this "LOVE MOVES IN MYSTERIOUS WAY" sooner or later you will realize this one
2006-11-24 01:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by ryan g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋