alright,me and my boyfriend do get sexually intimate at times but this time he wanted to try something new.he never done it before and i havent also.he was willing to go down on me but i said no and that it was nasty.i've never recieved it before but why do you need a tounge when you got a penis?
2006-11-24 00:48:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what are you talking about?! im 20!
2006-11-24 00:52:36 · update #1
20 EVERYONE! IM FREAKING 20! IM GETTING REALLY OFFENDED! IF I HAVENT TRIED IT YET WHATS THE BIG DEAL?! SHEESH!
2006-11-24 00:57:35 · update #2
That is not nasty. If you think that is nasty then sex should be nasty.
But you try the oral thing and then and only then you will know why you need a tongue even though you got a penis.
Since it is the first time, tell him focus on the clit and use his fingers too.
2006-11-24 00:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 07:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he wants to perform on you is called cunnilingus. It's perfectly normal and by my experience, the ladies love it. It is very direct sexual stimulation to ypour clitoris and very enjoyable. If you think it's nasty then tell him no. Like everything else, it's not for everyone. He will keep bugging you about it until you give in Obviously, he and his buddies have talked about it and he needs something to go back to his friends to brag about. Both of you sound to young to be having sex. Give it time and mature, you might change your mind.
2006-11-24 00:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be fun, but if the idea squicks you out, you probably won't enjoy it. But he was nice to offer it, many guys don't.
So thank him politely, and tell him "maybe another time."
When in doubt, a polite refusal is fine.
2006-11-24 02:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound slike you may be too young to be having sex in the first place. When you get older, you will appreciate such a thing, but for now, abstain.
2006-11-24 00:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my dear, is part of foreplay but if you both not into it, i guess you can skip it.
But do not ruin it for the rest of us, cause i personally loves it.
Totally different from penetration. (in a wild way of cause)
2006-11-24 00:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an entirely different experience. I would suggest trying it. You will probably like it
2006-11-24 00:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not experience all the nice possibilities if you have time?
Our bodies are not nasty things. Well, maybe nasty in a good way sometimes.
Bodies are to be enjoyed I think.
2006-11-24 00:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to at least try it....you will be in 7th heaven while he is doing it to you you will get so turned on......TRY IT
2006-11-24 00:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by jeff402006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him give u oral sex. especially if u r the receiving party, it is the best. i often suck my wife's v. Let him do it! U will love it.
2006-11-24 00:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋