Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

Don't want to look for a b/f
Don't want your heart broken again

2006-11-24 10:54:23 · 20 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do?


:)

2006-11-24 10:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you have got a date with as girl for the first time and you said that you'll take her out to the movies what do you think she may expect a her date to bring her ? or what is the right thing to give her on the frist date when going out that she'll really felel speacial and feel loved and cared

2006-11-24 10:51:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years.In HS, i was friends w his sister.we started dating 2 years after I graduated.We had always liked each other secretly but were in relationships in HS.He lived 2 hours away for the first 6 months of our relationship but saw me every weekend.He moved to my town and stuff was great.He hated his job and has decided to have a career change and go back to school.I support this but I know that he is nervous because even though he is really smart he "doesn't do the school thing well."We used to get in small arguments because he had to work all the time but he fixed it. Stuff has been wonderful.My problem is this...he has been really weird lately.I KNOW that it is because he has money issues on his mind and is nervous about starting school and the stress is just piling up.I love him, am comfy around him and the sex is AMAZING!I told him how I feel and he wont talk to me about it.My feelings are hurt and I dont know if it will change or if its over.

2006-11-24 10:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by ~*Amy*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 10:49:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 10:49:29 · 9 answers · asked by heatherc_nao 1 in Friends

are more perverted than women? Do you think men think about sex more than women do - or is it the other way around? And if you think guys are perverted, WHY do you think they are perverted?

2006-11-24 10:49:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to be mean until I met a really nice person. She is really nice and is popular at school. SHe made me a nicer person. Now I help everyone who needs it. I'm kind of poplular now and yeah. The "popular" peopole think it's wrong that I'm helping evryone! What the heck is wrong with them?I don't want to be popular anymore

2006-11-24 10:47:22 · 16 answers · asked by Aliza 2 in Friends

I'm a female and I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I get along with my parents fine and I can talk to them but when it comes to this subject its a little difficult. I'm very cautious about who my parents meet and I always said that I would never have them meet just random people and that I didnt want them to meet any of my boyfriends until I knew for sure that I really wanted to be with him. Well I've finally come to that point and I want to tell them but I'm having a little trouble approaching them with it. I cant seem to find that perfect opportunity. I've met his parents and I want to be able to return that to him. He knows I needed time to do it and he's been very understanding but I'm ready now and I just cant seem to get around to doing it. Any suggestions or ways to drop hints would be appreciated.

2006-11-24 10:47:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After receiving some enlightening answers to my previous question I am asking another and expanding info about myself. For the past... 10 years I've almost exlusively had women as friends. Out of 10 of my closest friends (the ones you laugh and cry with and steal and die for): 9 are women. Now... this is not supposed to be some sort of self-examination , but I'm curious to hear what others have to say. Because maybe somehow this relates to the way I relate to women. In the previous question I asked is it wrong/weird that I always (and I mean ALWAYS) feel in "love" with a girl after I'm in a relationship. After reading through the previous answers I realize that part of it is due to the fact that I was never TRULY satisfied with the relationships I had and currently have with my gf's. But I wonder if it's being surrounded by women (I'm the eternal teddy bear guy: women cry on my shoulder and tell me stuff) that is skewing my view of relationships. Anybody with similar problems?

2006-11-24 10:46:56 · 12 answers · asked by Theseus J 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend been going out for a few weeks now we don't really talk on the phone because i'm nervous to talk to him on the phone.But before we started going out I talked to him on the phone once and we really didn't have anything to talk about...Now im ready to talk on the phone and don't have anything to talk about can somebody please give me some questions to ask or at least something to talk about.......HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-24 10:46:54 · 17 answers · asked by *♥MiiSz uNiiQu3♥* 3 in Singles & Dating

why in highschool if you like someone you go out with them, and you cant go out with anybody else. i know its called cheating, duh, but why cant people just go on dates with guys to get to know them? and then when they really like someone alot and know all about them they become boyfriend&girlfriend. isnt that how it is when your older.. like in your 20s? or is that called casual dating..talking.. seeing them..or what. when do things change in our dating world.. why do people gotta be so serious in a relationship why cant they just date till they find a good guy. am i right? tell me what you think please
thanks

2006-11-24 10:46:07 · 10 answers · asked by ashley y 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating a girl on and off for 6 years now. i am 23 and she is my first girlfriend. we have always been in a long distance relationship, at least 3 hours away or so. when we are together everything is great, but we have had a lot of fights. i have yelled at her and she said some pretty harsh things. that has caused her to never put in 100% effort, which she has admitted. i have met a lot of other girls and dated a few when we broke up and never really saw all the qualities that she has. i am now living in california, and she is in maine. one problem is how she acts when we break up, every time she has sex with a handful of men.. we recently broke up and she did the same thing. i was not expecting this latest break up as it came 2 days after she came to visit. anyways, we took a break for 2 weeks and she calls and starts talking again. she tells me yesterday that she wants to come to cali, something ive been waiting for her to say for 6 yrs.. what should i do?

2006-11-24 10:45:54 · 4 answers · asked by dancindork17 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is hard to get Pardon Moi? hot and bothered?

2006-11-24 10:44:26 · 7 answers · asked by The Tramp Collector 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ok i like this guy ALOT and well we were going out and all and then my parents werent home and werent planning to be home for hours and so he came over and we talked and lafed and made jokes and hung out on the com. but we were both in chairs and anyways like maybe 30 min after he had been there he was in my chair arm around me nuzzled up with me and he looked at me with those sky blu eyes and kissed me and kissed me and kissed me ALOT and it was my first kiss i was so HAPPY so i called my BESTEST friend after he left and told her everything then like 15 min. later we were still talking and she goes omg im soo sry and im like why ?? and she said cole just asked me out ? [[ the guy i was making out with and of course she said no ]] and i dont know what to do its been like a week and im still REALLY upset !! and i dont know how to approch him i mean he knows i know and he said can we still be friends and i told him no we cant and i just dont know what to do any more can anybody help ?

2006-11-24 10:43:30 · 17 answers · asked by Skaterboii's Best Friend 1 in Singles & Dating

HI I am looking for some advice for a friend (REALLY!!) My friend's daughter who is 19 is dating what looks to me to be a border line dangerous guy. he refuses to interact with her family is talking to her about quitting school and moving in with him. her daughteris a good kid but has started to hang around with a new crowd who are very negative on parents. What is worriesome is the control like getting her a new cell phone and trying to tap into $$ she will get from a rebate from the college if she does not attendand alot of other stuff
I know that I am in my 40's and don't really undertand what 19 year olds are going thru but i do know that "back inthe Olden " days this guy would be bad news and could lead to nothig but trouble. How does my frend keep her daughter safe without pushing her away.?? I know she is 19 and she can live her life as she pleases .I just don't want to see this girl hurt or Worse... Thank you

2006-11-24 10:43:15 · 6 answers · asked by Beth M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 10:42:00 · 7 answers · asked by grandmatg 1 in Family

k, im 15.. some say its a little old to not have a first kiss. but hey im picky. neways, my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a month.. and we havent kissed. were both pretty shy about these things. but i know ill have to be the one 2 make the first move. yet im scared to do it.. like im afraid ill make the move but something would go wrong and it would be completely embarassing.. so any advice? im going to the movies sunday with him so advice asap would help

2006-11-24 10:41:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(as in kissing)

2006-11-24 10:39:44 · 12 answers · asked by Rawr! 1 in Singles & Dating

Say you were digging this girl and really wanted to be with her. During sex, mid stroke, she tells you not to get too attached because she has a boyfriend. (You didn't know this before you guys slept together. You thought she was single.)

Later, the same night, she tells you it was a lie; she lied because she was afraid of how she felt about you. She was afraid of getting hurt. How would you feel? HONESTLY? Would you still give her a chance?

2006-11-24 10:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to do something big for her, without spending a whole lot of money

2006-11-24 10:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mom and dad have been divorced for years. My mom got laid off 6 years ago and has never gotten back on her feet, by her own choice. She's had plenty of chances to get herself together. My dad is not really close and an alcoholic. I'm closer to my mom's side. My mom never calls or visits (I go to college 2 hours away). When I call her, all she does is talk about herself, how much her life sucks, and how poor she is. I don't feel sorry for her because she isn't doing a damn thing to get her life together! She can barely make ends meet which means she cannot see me or my sister. Her sisters and mom (aunts and grandma) are sort of the same way. All they do is complain about being poor and how awful their lives and marriages are. I get so depressed around them that I've stopped visiting and calling. I'm trying to make something of myself and it's annoying to hear people who complain about things they can change. Should I say something to them or listen to their endless rants

2006-11-24 10:37:33 · 9 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4 in Family

2006-11-24 10:37:19 · 9 answers · asked by Aliza 2 in Friends

2006-11-24 10:37:07 · 21 answers · asked by Rawr! 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm leaving my husband, but I haven't told him yet. I'm leaving mid december b/c our daughters birthday is at the beginning...Im plannin on telling him when he gets home tomorrow. Is that too short notice?

2006-11-24 10:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by me&onlyme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So we were born and raised w/ the same religion. I was raised in a secular environment and he in a practicing slightly strict environment. We do plan on having children in the future but i worry because the older i get the less religious i've become...the older he gets the more religious he has become. I'm afraid of what may happen in the future...although everything is great in all other aspects of the relationship. Because i've grown distant from my religion and all organized religions for that matter...is it logical to allow him raise his child w/ his beliefs?

2006-11-24 10:35:58 · 11 answers · asked by Petra 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-24 10:35:11 · 6 answers · asked by grandmatg 1 in Family

Arn't they people? Just because they're different, doesn't mean you can just presicute them and call them evil. And besides, government shouldn't be albe to pass laws about it, because in the Constitution it states that there can be no law that interferes with the life of the people. But I want to know what other people think on this issue, so let me know what you think.

2006-11-24 10:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by jess7435 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend invited me to go to church with him and I went with him and his grandma and sister to church, but he didn't introduce me to anyone. Why do you think that is so? This is my first time at the church too.

2006-11-24 10:32:30 · 13 answers · asked by leazngurl 5 in Singles & Dating

I lived with my stepfather and he pasted 2 years ago. I never knew my real dad or other sister.

2006-11-24 10:32:22 · 8 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Family