what do you do when you feel lonely, and your not sure if you want a boyfriend?

Question

Don't want to look for a b/f
Don't want your heart broken again

Answer 1

drink lots of jager.

Answer 2

Well, since I can relate because I am a young lady who does not want a b/f but sometimes just wants the company or comfort that a man can give when I get lonely. You can have a close guy friend that you just talk to or even be affectionate with. That's the only thing I can come up with,I hope this helps.

Answer 3

Then don't look for a boyfriend. You don't need a boyfriend to live everyday. Go buy yourself a spa package or get a make over. Do something for yourself, that will make you happy. Then go on with your life. Go meet new people and promise yourself not to date any of them for at least six months. Just hang out and be friends, I think you will find that you can really get to know someone if their is no pressure to date them.
I was single for 4 years after a really nasty break up, and I felt the same way you did. I just went out and lived my life and met alot of real cool people along the way.
Maybe after you spend some time, meeting people, with out the pressure of dating, you'll want to get back out their and give it a shot. Eventually your wounds will heal. ;)

Answer 4

Lonely and alone aren't the same thing. You can feel lonely and be in a relationship...lonely isn't the time to go looking for a boy or girlfriend...would you want to think someone was with you because they were lonely, or because they really thought you were someone special?

If you are lonely...spend time with friends or family...take up a hobby, join a club, volunteer, etc...there are many ways to combat lonliness that don't entail you putting someone else's feelings in jeapordy...

Answer 5

If you have close friends trying hanging with them more offen ,it keeps your mind occupied. Also, try different activities. Love yoyourself more ,once u see urself doing for yourself, the loneliness goes away. Sooner then u know it someone will be in your life. I've been going thru the same thing but after awhile dating gets boring, do u if the person is worth it they will fit where they can with u!

Answer 6

Well, I ain't had a girlfriend in like a year and some change, but one thing you can't do is just shut yourself down, and have low self-esteem. Have hope, and have confidence in your looks, and believe that you're beautiful in your own little way. Don't worry about it, and just be cool. Don't worry about being rejected by someone, just take risks, and hope for the best results. Think of yourself in high ways, and carry yourself in high ways, and the guys will come. Just have confidence! Good Luck & God Bless!

Answer 7

hang out with family and friends.. listen to music, play sports, do some reading.. learn something new and exciting about the world around you.

nothing wrong with wanting a break from dating or looking for dates.. be single and focus on other things in life...

eventually, you'll be back in the dating scene when you feel ready..

all the best and good luck!

Answer 8

Do things to better myself, take a course at the local university. Keep myself busy with friends and family. Read a new book, clean a closet. I enjoy my own company so this is never an issue. God bless****

Answer 9

Just because you are lonely doesn't mean that you should run out and get a guy to keep you busy. You will know with time what you want. Don't worry and give yourself time.

Answer 10

it sounds as though you have been hurt and are afraid of a relationship--- what you should do is try to get friendly with some people with the same interests as you--like a church group or choir or something like that. eventually you wil learn to trust the right people again

Answer 11

get a boy toy. Someone who has the understanding that he is just a homie lover friend. The right companion at the right time..none of the relationship headache!