Ok so I'm leaving my husband, but I haven't told him yet. I'm leaving mid december b/c our daughters birthday is at the beginning...Im plannin on telling him when he gets home tomorrow. Is that too short notice?
2006-11-24 10:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by me&onlyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok so I'm leaving my husband, but I haven't told him yet. I'm leaving mid december b/c our daughters birthday is at the beginning...Im plannin on telling him when he gets home tomorrow. Is that too short notice? Is is aware that things are bad and have been for sometime now...
2006-11-24 10:43:39 · update #1
He is aware that things are bad and have been for sometime now...
2006-11-24 10:44:28 · update #2
You are just asking for trouble with any notice. If you are leaving wait until you start out the door. That will reduce the amount of time both of you have to face all the drama. On the other hand if you really want him to talk you out of leaving, go ahead and give notice it might work.
2006-11-24 11:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by tim b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short notice????/ You are not leaving a job, you are breaking up your family...and just before christmas...it's important to stay for your daughters birthday but the rest of the holidays aren't important for her??? I suggest you do what you think is right as you are the one that will have to deal with the consequences of your actions and pick up the pieces...good luck to you and your family
2006-11-24 10:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since he is aware of how you feel about the relationship , then wait till after the birthday . as you have planned.
if he is the violent type don't tell him at all.
just leave one day when he is gone.
2006-11-24 10:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just leave dont say nothing just go thats unless if he did something wrong. Cause if he did then he dont deserve to know crap. But if its just not working out sit down with him and tell him how you feel. Good luck.
2006-11-24 10:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No time will be a good time so leave when it feels right to you. Be prepared for his reaction and make sure you have somewhere safe to go.
2006-11-24 11:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't even have to tell him if you won't to leave just leave and tell him later if you tell him he might try something stupid or try to harm you and your child so holla at him on the fly side oh but first make him lick the bootie hole leave him and when he try's to sell out in front of pepole say you the one that lick my az crack yo sh$tty mouth az
2006-11-24 10:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by tip2sexy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my divorce was long and painful. short and sudden would have been more meerciful all around
2006-11-24 12:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im glad ur tellin him @ least..... but are u just tired of him? like you need more info! but good luck any ways!!
2006-11-24 10:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by aShLeY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, read Dr. Phil's answer :-)
2006-11-24 11:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he aware you are unhappy???
2006-11-24 10:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋