k, im 15.. some say its a little old to not have a first kiss. but hey im picky. neways, my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a month.. and we havent kissed. were both pretty shy about these things. but i know ill have to be the one 2 make the first move. yet im scared to do it.. like im afraid ill make the move but something would go wrong and it would be completely embarassing.. so any advice? im going to the movies sunday with him so advice asap would help
2006-11-24 10:41:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember those days. They felt like just yesterday, but now im 20 years old and it brings back so many memories.
You really have nothing to worry about, trust me we've all been there. You'll look back one day and realize how foolish it is to be worried about something like that. Kissing comes naturally. Remember that if you feel uncomfortable, and if he pressures you, you shouldnt do anything that u dont want to.
GOOD LUCK :o)
2006-11-24 10:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by ๑The Goddess๑ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry you are not the only one that is 15 and has not had a kiss yet, my advice would be after the movie look into his eyes and talk to him if he looks around your face or at your lips (mouth) then he wants to kiss you todon't make it a sloppy kiss and let him lead, have fun ;)
2006-11-24 10:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by leelandrew 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try holding hands first. That will help establish a bond and feel closer and touching will be easier. I think it should go quick hug to closer hug then hand holding then arm around and /or kiss. This should all be be when it feels comfortable and natural of course. There is no hurry and no right or wrong way.
2006-11-24 10:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is basiclly my old situation.
i was 15 before i got my first kiss. and my boyfriend and i went to the movies. and later that night after the movies we were walking out and i said come here, and he was like what, so we just kept walking and if you really like him you just need to lean over and kiss him. or kiss him right before the movie starts while your sitting in the theater. during previews :) good luck
2006-11-24 10:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Linneas Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on if your guy likes an aggressive girl. i always think its the guy's job to make the first kiss move. when i was with my guy, the first time he hesitated so much to kiss me, so i flat out asked "are you gonna kiss me or what!?" he found that funny & it eased some of his tension. but you should just randomly plant one on him without talking about it or pondering whether to do it or not. just do it! you'll feel great that it happened!
2006-11-24 10:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by damsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is not too old to not have a first kiss. dont rush! do it when you feel it's right!! seriously, a first kiss is really special you dont wanna waste it
my advice is, dont plan the kiss, it'll come naturally ;)
2006-11-24 10:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by sofia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im 15 too and havent had my first kiss.
tell him how you feel or just get close and cuddle, eventually he should get the hint,'
good luck!
your lucky you have a bf. i want one!
2006-11-24 10:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by sweetheart--xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move when it feels right. do not do it in the middle of the movie you don't want to break his nose.
2006-11-24 10:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbellluvr3668 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing comes naturaully,do it whenever you feel ready
2006-11-24 10:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by spunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋