ok ok i like this guy ALOT and well we were going out and all and then my parents werent home and werent planning to be home for hours and so he came over and we talked and lafed and made jokes and hung out on the com. but we were both in chairs and anyways like maybe 30 min after he had been there he was in my chair arm around me nuzzled up with me and he looked at me with those sky blu eyes and kissed me and kissed me and kissed me ALOT and it was my first kiss i was so HAPPY so i called my BESTEST friend after he left and told her everything then like 15 min. later we were still talking and she goes omg im soo sry and im like why ?? and she said cole just asked me out ? [[ the guy i was making out with and of course she said no ]] and i dont know what to do its been like a week and im still REALLY upset !! and i dont know how to approch him i mean he knows i know and he said can we still be friends and i told him no we cant and i just dont know what to do any more can anybody help ?
2006-11-24 10:43:30 · 17 answers · asked by Skaterboii's Best Friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yikes! That's tough! And you're doing the right thing! I know you like him a lot - very handsome and charming guy and all that - but he has a bad heart, bad attitude and a big EGO! You are better off without him. Stay away! Don't think that you can change him!!!! I have to say, though, that you gotta keep your BESTEST friend. She's great!
2006-11-24 10:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made out with a guy. You are not in an exclusive relationship with him. You owe him nothing, he owes yo nothing. He is free to ask out whomever he chooses. You are free to be his friend or not.
It sounds like you want more from him than he is willing to give and if he doesn't give it, you don't want to be his friend. That is fine and okay. You are choosing to be really upset over the situation and you are free to do that. Do you really prefer to remain upset if you can't get what you want from the person you want?
If you stew in resentment it will leave you unavailable to enjoy yourself right now and miss out on new opportunities. This is a crisis of your own making, and you have the power to let it go and to LIVE!
2006-11-24 11:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him. you don't deserve him. he sounds like a great and wonderful guy at the VERY beginning, but going on, he doesn't sound so great. if i were you, i'd go and tell him off (without using any cuss words), and tell him you're through with him (in big bold letters). just approach him---have the courage and take a deep breath, and be calm---it'll be alright. i'd also tell your friend, that she should do the same thing. what's to keep him from meeting another girl, making out with her, and breaking your best friend's heart, just like he broke yours? neither of you deserves to have a make-believe Prince Charming in your life when you can have a real-life Prince Charming. There's somebody out there for everybody, you just have to find him.
2006-11-24 10:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by K.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should be friends BUT nothing more guys know how to sweet talk n this guy ur talkin bout is obviously a major sweet talker so yes become friends again but no matter what he says don't allow yourself to be toyed with again. Hes a player n hell probably try to do it again so Iook out n be careful wit guys like that.
2006-11-24 10:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything except accept the fact that he's still immature and does not know what he wants. Trust me..after a while, you will just laugh this off. I know it kinda hurts right now but thats part of life....Also talk to your best friend and if she still likes him, tell her your not being selfish but she should stay away from guys like him...
2006-11-24 12:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey; you did the right thing. just leave him alone. and just be thankful that it wasn't more than a kiss. and you have a great friend that told you about him.
take things slow.
p.s. never bring a guy home when you're parents are not around again.
2006-11-24 10:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by teddibear31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he said 2 remain as friends? I guess he just made out cuz he wanted 2 and now maybe he is just not interested in u.
2006-11-24 10:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss does not propose something. you're way too caught up. you at the instant are not married, or engaged. he's not even your boyfriend, is he? he's unfastened to do as he pleases, till he tells you he's not. Now you have a style to make: Be his pal, or not.
2016-10-13 01:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he is the kind of guy that likes to make out with a lot of gals, so what does this tell you? Chalk it up to experience and move on!
2006-11-24 10:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it, just deal with it and be happy that u have a friend who respects you and turned that guy down. thats what a best friend is for. guys will come and go so just try to forget about this guy and move on
2006-11-24 10:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋