Say you were digging this girl and really wanted to be with her. During sex, mid stroke, she tells you not to get too attached because she has a boyfriend. (You didn't know this before you guys slept together. You thought she was single.)
Later, the same night, she tells you it was a lie; she lied because she was afraid of how she felt about you. She was afraid of getting hurt. How would you feel? HONESTLY? Would you still give her a chance?
2006-11-24 10:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello:
I think I would learn a little bit more about her. Find out if she really does have a boyfriend or not. If she does, I would stay away from her. Even if she breaks up with her boyfriend for you. If someone cheats, it is likely that they will cheat again.
Being a girl, I would never tell a guy that I had a boyfriend in the midst of any type of intimacy, no matter what the reason. And if I did have a boyfriend, I would never be intimate with another guy.
I think that you should have a talk about the mixed signals she is sending you. Tell her that she needs to be completely honest with you. Tell her that you were really liking her, but all of this lying is making you really confused.
I personally would feel really confused and hurt by the whole thing. I would probably just find someone new, who isn't in a relationship or who won't lie about being in a relationship.
I hope this helps and good luck.
2006-11-24 10:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define give her a chance... do you want a relationship with this girl? If you do, then don't give her a chance.
But hey, on a positive note, everything about her spells out BOOTY CALL. If you're into shameless, loveless sex, I'd say go for it. What you gotta lose. Just keep her on the side and call her when you're dry on the supply. All it takes is a little maintence and upkeep.
2006-11-24 18:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO She Most Likley Wasn't Lieing And She Really Does Have A BoyFriend.
2006-11-24 18:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say use her for awhile. Dont call her back everying time she calls you. Get what you want and leave one night. (DO NOT PUSH IT THOUGH). Durring all of this keep a close close eye on her actions, tone and facial expressions. If she does seem to really like you. Hold her close to you and kiss her. Not deeply. Maybe just on her forehead. Hold her so that she can feel that you do care. Start saying sweet things to her but dont over do it or you will become the b*tch boyfreind quick. Just start acting sincere.
2006-11-24 18:44:25 · answer #4 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give her a chance but I'd try to make her understand the affect of what she did. And why is she playing games with you while you are pumping away? Was the sex that routine for her???
2006-11-24 18:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would lose a few points for lying about it. She explained though. No problem. Would want and expect honesty in the future. Tough to make anything really good without it.
2006-11-24 18:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say no. Not a good way to hide your feelings. Inappropriate during sex. Now instead of being hurt, you have hurt him.
2006-11-24 18:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by zman70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think the girl was a bit psycho. Besides...why is she jumping into the sack with someone who she doesn't know well enough in the first place?? Why is he???
2006-11-24 18:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by FRANKFUSS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would look into it a bit to make sure it really was a lie and if it was then of course because it is normal to have mixed feelings
2006-11-24 18:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cause she sounds like a drama queen that needs to grow up.
2006-11-24 18:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋