Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

its been since June that she hasn't seen her dad, he doesn't call her, doesn't send her anything nor pays child-support, he called her on her cell phone to wish her a happy thanksgiving but she had the phone off so she didn't get the message, he never calls our daughter and he feels its ok to call her on a hoilday but the next phone call won't be till xmas day...what do I do people???
Should I change my daugter's number? she's 8...he should be calling her 3 or 4 times a week not only on hoildays...and I don't want to to feel he can get away with it!
As if say..(look I don't pay child-support I don't do anything for her and I still get to speak to her on the hoildays..He does nothing for her..I mean nothing! But if my daugter tells me that she's calling her dad I say sure NP cause in that part I don't want her to feel I want her away from her dad..But I want him to be a better dad everyday not on hoildays our daughter wasn't born on a hoilday.
When I ask where's the child-support? his response id FU put the baby..and I hang up!
why should it be her job to call him he's the parent he's suppose to show her not her show him!
She has a phone cause he claimed the reason he doesn't call her at home is cause of me so I solved the problem and got her a phone and he doesn't call her at all! He help me make her but since I found out I was pregnant he's done nothing for her, never even bought her diapers or clothes just grief that's all he's given all three of his kids! and is oldest is 13
To me that is abuse always leaving her, he's left her 7 times and doesn't even explain he just takes off and when he comes back he acts like nothing and thinks she's this little girl when she's hurt cause she cries to me and he even heard her cry and he ignores her.

2006-11-24 10:32:02 · 8 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got engaged, and am not sure where to start planning my wedding. Do you know what book or guide that can help me? I want something practical. My goal for the wedding is simple elegance...

2006-11-24 10:31:29 · 3 answers · asked by Benji's Mommy 6 in Weddings

2006-11-24 10:31:16 · 18 answers · asked by madaboutyou55 2 in Singles & Dating

I unfortunately haven't had a birthday party with friends since I was nine (My parents don't like to have big parties with anyone outside family.) and I haven't been to a birthday party since I was twelve (My friends all have the same problem.), so I have no idea what an average teen b-day party would be like. But I'm deciding to change all that and tell my parents about good party ideas. My birthday is December 13th. What's something good I can do for my 15th?

2006-11-24 10:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-24 10:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 10:30:22 · 23 answers · asked by dominicandyme22 2 in Singles & Dating

I know personality counts for much- but on a first glance what physical things turn you on in a man?

2006-11-24 10:29:06 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to hint that I want to kiss my boyfriend? We have been dating for about 3 months, and we haven't kissed yet... Btw, I am a Freshman in HS

2006-11-24 10:28:53 · 11 answers · asked by Chelsea S 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel as going as far as suicide

2006-11-24 10:28:26 · 9 answers · asked by net lover 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont have conclusive evidence but im pretty sure my partner is cheating on me , but im so in love that im contimplating continuing this relationship i just dont know what to do ?

2006-11-24 10:28:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i have a serious problem.....see i have a boyfrined that i have been with for 1 and 4 months and well see we made a new freind..well we hung out with him alot and well i fell in love with him as so did he with me...well its to the point where i want to be with him and not my boyfrined but i dont want to hurt my bf and he said if i broke uo with him he would kill himself and i am scared he will go through with it but when im not with this other guy im heartbroken and depressed ...i dont feel the same for my bf but i wanna be with this other guy i dont wanna hurt anyone and this guy isnt gonna wait for me very long....and im afraid i wil throw away everything for my him..when he is wiht me he is sweet and tells me things all girls wanna hear but when he is not with me everyone says hes different and sweet talks all the gilrs but he sears up and down he wants to be with me but i dont know wat to do please help me people

2006-11-24 10:27:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 9 year old niece and I have no idea what to get her for Christmas. I only see her 4-5 times a year, so I don't know her interests. Whats a good present for someone in that age? Are barbies too young for her? I don't want to get Bratz dolls, I think they are awful.

2006-11-24 10:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by parental unit 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 10:26:51 · 20 answers · asked by PriNceSz 2 in Singles & Dating

I get tired of men offering insight into the inter-workings of women. Girls, what do you have to say?

2006-11-24 10:26:23 · 17 answers · asked by irishman 3 in Singles & Dating

Tell my daughter sex is ok as long as she is on birth control and using protection?? She's 16 but has been dating her b/f for 2 yrs. Is it wrong to tell her this?? I think she is sleeping with him but she didn't tell me. Should I tell her I'm Ok with it?? She stays over at his house almost every night and says she only sleeps in his arms. Is she being honest??
Do you think she would say if she had sex with him?? Would you want more than just ur g/f sleeping in ur arms??
Do you all think it has gone further??

2006-11-24 10:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Singles & Dating

When do I know I'm in love?

2006-11-24 10:25:05 · 18 answers · asked by moi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my three friends (All in our late 20's) have formed a team to help out our neighborhood. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and am the leader. Then there is the guy who wears the Grimace costume, he is the strong man. Then there is the guy who is a convicted sex offender, he wears a trenchcoat like the matrix. And lastly, their is "The Professional", he wears a cardboard Burgerking crown and a fake muscle suit. We walk around town and knock on random doors. When the person answers, I dance and do a Jar Jar quote, then make a loud screech with an air horn. While the person is reeling from the sound, the sex offender confesses that he is a sex offender (as required by his parole). Then the grimace throws some leaves and dirt into the persons house. And lastly, Muscle King plays 'me so horny' on his boombox and we dance. We have done this to hundreds of houses. Are we some kind of kings? I don't know how?

2006-11-24 10:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by The Truth About Cigarettes! 1 in Singles & Dating

The best thing anyone's ever done for me is make me realize I'll never be the only girl in the school who plays football. She proved she was better than me. I was really angry, but then again life's to short to stay angry and she seemed pretty cool. She became my friend.

2006-11-24 10:24:36 · 5 answers · asked by Aliza 2 in Friends

2006-11-24 10:24:31 · 1 answers · asked by happy_blabla 2 in Singles & Dating

I HAVE THIS FRIEND THAT GETS UPSET WHENEVER I HANG AROUND MY OTHER BUDDIES WHAT COULD THIS MEAN?

2006-11-24 10:22:30 · 17 answers · asked by kbl_shorty 1 in Friends

Adam and I talk sometimes on AIM because he is busy with college, work, and martial arts. Whenever we talk he asks me how I've been and how school is going. We have been talking since I was seven! The thing is he ALWAYS wants to talk about me, why is that? When I ask him about himself, he sums it up and tells me quickly, then he goes on to talk about me.

2006-11-24 10:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it kosher to go out to the movies, dinner, etc., with your platonic male friends if you're boyfriend isn't into those things? I also do these things with my girlfriends. My boyfriend is a homebody and although I enjoy spending Friday/Sat nights "in" with him, I also enjoy going out. Also, not all my friends (male & female) like him & vice versa. So there are times when he doesn't go out with us but I often feel bad. He says it's okay, and I'm glad he isn't the jealous type, but I still wonder if he'd prefer me to spend all my free time with him. Wadda you think?

2006-11-24 10:21:07 · 2 answers · asked by fairydancer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

ilove this beautiful girl and i want to ask her out but everytime she seems to be hanging out with her friends how .......how do i ask her out i just don't want her friend to see or get to know that i am asking her out any tips on how to approach to her when asking her out ?

2006-11-24 10:21:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been writing to a guy for a few months and he told me he is off and on with his girlfriend but finally ended it then told me this..."I just want to tell you something I don't know you will believe it or not but I was trying to end that relationship to just think about you. Is that ridiculous?" What does he mean by that??? English isn't his first language so please tell me what you think he means.

2006-11-24 10:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at my school. im not sure at all if she likes me or not. some times she looks at me and then looks away in a second. i really like her, but she doesnt know that. i want 2 tell her but im not sure she likes me or not. plus she is a quiet girl and isnt much of a talker, so i cant reli on conversation. but she is a really sweet girl. i dont know what to do. plz help me. i really like her

2006-11-24 10:19:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 10:19:29 · 2 answers · asked by kellieghr 3 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I''m with my boyfriend and I ask a simple question he would always yell at me and say, "Babe!" Its as if I anoye him. Do you think I should get another boyfriend or should I just talk with him. I really love him and I know he loves me too but sometimes, I get mad at him because of how he makes me feel. Like a peace of sh__t.

2006-11-24 10:18:39 · 13 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Singles & Dating

your nintendo 64, i do and i still love to play it, my favorite game is super smash brothers.

2006-11-24 10:17:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like womaen feet very much,, and i open site about that subject in net..
i was have some experiance when i was child. it was amazing..

i talk in that subject very much in net with girls.. mor than 80% dont like it at all.and som are feel like .... i dont like to write

pls help me and i want some support

2006-11-24 10:17:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theyres a guy i really like at school and ive been texting him and my friend almost hooked us up, BUT turns out he text me and said he had a girlfriend should i keep texting him or completely forget him?

2006-11-24 10:17:45 · 8 answers · asked by angel baby 1 in Singles & Dating