I have a friend that?

Question

I HAVE THIS FRIEND THAT GETS UPSET WHENEVER I HANG AROUND MY OTHER BUDDIES WHAT COULD THIS MEAN?

Answer 1

She defiantly has relationship issues. She gets jealous when you spend time with other people, this is an insecurity issue. She needs to learn to make other friends, too, and let you have a life without her. I'm not sure how close of friends that you are, but I would think that this would drive you crazy, and drive your relationship apart. I would either have a talk with her, or find some distance. This reminds me of the movie "Single White Female II" that I watched a few nights ago. Scary! Good luck

Answer 2

You didn't supply enough info to answer the question. However, I can speculate.

1. Your friend is possessive and jealous of the time you spend with your other friends (i.e. not a good thing). You don't discuss this with your friend because you're afraid of hurting her feelings.
2. Your friend is a really good friend who's concerned that your "other buddies" are constantly getting high on weed and crystal meth. You hang out with these characters because you grew up with them and fear that cutting them loose would hurt their feelings.

As you can see, the two scenarios are quite different except for the fear of hurting someone's feelings. Either scenario requires you to think about what's the best way to handle the situation, weigh your options, make a decision, then act. Hope you make a good choice.

On the other hand, scenarios 1 and 2 may have nothing to do with your situation. Again, more info is needed to give a better answer.

Answer 3

Your friend may feel insecure, and be worried that you'll drop her/him for these other buddies.

Or perhaps the ppl you're hanging around are from the 'wrong crowd' and they feel like they need to protect you.

The best thing to do is to bring up the subject with your friend. If he/she is jealous or insecure - reassure them.

If he/she is worried about the 'crowd' don't get angry - this friend cares about you. Tell them that you'll take their opinion into consideration but you are old enough to make your own choices.

Who knows, it could be for a totally different reason!! Talk to your friend and take it from there.

Good luck!

Answer 4

It means that she is selfish. Because she want you to have her/ him only. I have a friend like this .Its very hard to deal with her cause she got angry if i go with other friends sometimes. Then she don't answer my calls and ignore me when i meet here somewhere. But i still cheer her up to forget her anger on me.So we became close again. I introduced her to my friends and invite her to go with us also. But she refused to go and she will just get upset. That is what she did to her friends also and bite back them. For 9 years of friendship I had just decide to have a space from her. I am loosing some of friends too because of her. Having jealousies, being selfish, having no respect is not good in a friendship.

Answer 5

The friend has inclusion issues. That is they are super sensitive to rejection and they are taking your activites with your other buddies as a rejection. Trust me this dog knows.

Answer 6

my friend met this new girl and they are like best friends now and she was ditching me for her. i was feeling mad sad and a little angry but i also felt jealous. you should ask her to come along with your other friends. she might be feeling alittle left out like she isnt as important your other friends. explain to her that she is equally the same as your other friends!!!

Answer 7

It means your friend is jealous. Ask them why they get so upset.

Answer 8

Is this friend of ur sex..or the opposite sex? May be that he/she has a romantic interest in you..or does not like ur other friends. You need to confront he/she and ask..

Answer 9

Whoa! That's one jealous problem! Just chill and take her when you hang with your other buds. She'll be fine

Answer 10

Your friend is thinking about all the fun you are having without them.....