i dont have conclusive evidence but im pretty sure my partner is cheating on me , but im so in love that im contimplating continuing this relationship i just dont know what to do ?
2006-11-24 10:28:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tried that once and it didnt work out because the niggling feeling that he would continue to do it if i forgave him. We stayed together for a while after i confronted him and he admited it but it was never neant to be. The questions u have to ask urself are:
1. Can u live with the fact he is sleeping with someone else?
2. Can u sleep with him knowing that hours,days or weeks ago he slept with someone else?
3. Can u live with him taking her out, wineing and dineing her as u are stuck in the house?
4. Can u trust him, when u confront him with this, never to do it again?
5. Can u get over it and move on?
6. Can u forgive him, and never mention it again(have to if u forgive him)?
7. Is he worth it?
8. Why is he sleeping around?
9. Are u worth more? which u will find is YES u are
2006-11-24 10:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by kate 0504 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till you have more evidence Im kinda goin thru the same thing, but if he is cheating they always slip up somewhere or get caught or seen by someone else.But i think also if they are cheating an although how harsh it may seem there is usually reason why they do an if you really want it to work then the reason for it needs addressed an tackled an if it can be fixed then cool.
2006-11-24 10:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by simplyCj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all find out if he really is and take it from there but my personal opinion is if someone cheated on me i wouldnt care if i loved them i couldnt be with them i would have more self respect and i wouldnt want to live my life with the pain of wondering whats he upto. Come on your better than that babe and you know it good luck xxx
2006-11-25 00:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer this
if he is cheating - confront him on it and clear the air
if he stops then I think you have a chance
if he doesnt then ultimately the relationship cant go anywhere
2006-11-24 10:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U deserve better than someone who will cheat on you...but before you do anything make dure your a 100 percent sure that he is cheating...
good luck
poppy
x
2006-11-24 10:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by poppy! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First find out if they are cheating then talk to them about it. See if you can fix your relationship and move on with ur lives_
2006-11-24 10:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. Heck no .. .. 2 wrongs by no ability make one perfect .. .. i'd forgive, and then forget him .. .. dishonest is a vast no no .. i'm no longer keen to provide my all to someone who stocks his bits with somebody else .. i do not care how a lot of a mistake it became .. keep in mind that sh*t previously that's got here about ..
2016-11-29 10:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a low self-esteem. You are worth more than that. Talk to your close friends. Don't settle for that.
2006-11-24 10:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
until u have evidance then id hold out. if u find out he is cheating then more fool you if u decide to stay. sorry,blunt but true. good luck hun.xx
2006-11-24 10:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one ,you need to be 100% your partners cheating,, ? personally NO WAY ,,NO HOW ID STOP WITH AN UNFAITHFUL PARTNER NEVER? YOUVE NOTHING WITHOUT TRUST!
2006-11-24 12:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by madmarie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋