Tell my daughter sex is ok as long as she is on birth control and using protection?? She's 16 but has been dating her b/f for 2 yrs. Is it wrong to tell her this?? I think she is sleeping with him but she didn't tell me. Should I tell her I'm Ok with it?? She stays over at his house almost every night and says she only sleeps in his arms. Is she being honest??
Do you think she would say if she had sex with him?? Would you want more than just ur g/f sleeping in ur arms??
Do you all think it has gone further??
2006-11-24 10:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by Kiah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you take advantage of a girl sleeping in your arms?? If he doesn't does it mean she has slept with him(sex)
2006-11-24 10:26:19 · update #1
Do you think he wants sex more than she does??
2006-11-24 10:29:56 · update #2
Yes it is completly ok
2006-11-24 10:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by Freakygirl 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why are you letting her sleep over at his house at all for one? And it's really up to you but I'd personally have had a long talk about safe sex instead of giving her my approval to have sex. And you're only fooling yourself if you think all she's doing is sleeping in his arms. She's sleeping with him plain and simple. Get her on birth control.
2006-11-24 10:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dark 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Holy s*** breath what is this 20 questions.... Umm use your head and think about the questions you just asked complete strangers.... weren't you ever 16, cause when i was 16 i was sleeping with my b/f and never told my mom (of course i am still with the guy that i slept with!!) but now adays its all about sex, and i would not allow it to happen, i mean i definatly wouldnt tell my 16 year old it is ok to have sex with b.c and protections... i mean if shes gonna do it then shes gonna do it, but if she has your ok, shes gonna sleep with a bunch of different guys, tell her you dont agree with it, but if your gonna do it ware protection and use b.c . And you have to know that ne guy especially at that age is going to take advantage of a girl "sleeping in his arms" come on now.... SHES LYING THREW HER TEETH!! just my opinion, but why dont you ask your daughter... if you already told her its ok, then why are you asking us what we think, you oviously think it is wrong other wise why are you trying to get everyones ok?
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-24 10:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by Romy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think sex before marriage is wrong.
If you feel your daughter has been sleeping with her boyfriend, you should encourage them to either get married (not a good option for 16 year olds) or not see each other anymore.
Even if she is only sleeping in his arms, just being around him at night might lead to premarital sex down the road. It probably has already gone further. Put your foot down and protect your daughter.
2006-11-24 10:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you letting your 16 year old stay at his house? She should be at home. And dont you think 16 is a little young for you to be promoting sex? Birth control dosent prevent pregnancies.
Use your head.
2006-11-24 10:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by joniwarren22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
although she is way too young to have sex or sleep over her bf's house..try to support her best u can..take it from me..I left home at 16 because my mom did not like my ex..( she was right..that is why he is now my ex!) Anyway..if you dont support her and forbid her not to see him..the way my mother did..you will lose her..be happy that you know what she is doing and who she is w/..ask her questions..be involved w/ his family as well..it is sad, but the kids today start way too soon..more of a reason not for you to turn ur back on her because she is doing something you dont like..it is great to be a vigilant parent..but try to be a supportive friend too.just know when to draw the line..
2006-11-24 10:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by dancelikno1iswatchin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. she is not being honest. and its not bad to tell her to use protection. she is very young. at 16 she could get pregnant.
2006-11-24 10:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOPE
and i web finger any one who said yes
2006-11-26 15:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um NO! cause what if somthing goes wrong and she gets pregnet? you will be blammed! come on! tell her no!!! good luck!
2006-11-24 10:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by aShLeY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless you are not spiritual
2006-11-24 10:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋