okay so i have a serious problem.....see i have a boyfrined that i have been with for 1 and 4 months and well see we made a new freind..well we hung out with him alot and well i fell in love with him as so did he with me...well its to the point where i want to be with him and not my boyfrined but i dont want to hurt my bf and he said if i broke uo with him he would kill himself and i am scared he will go through with it but when im not with this other guy im heartbroken and depressed ...i dont feel the same for my bf but i wanna be with this other guy i dont wanna hurt anyone and this guy isnt gonna wait for me very long....and im afraid i wil throw away everything for my him..when he is wiht me he is sweet and tells me things all girls wanna hear but when he is not with me everyone says hes different and sweet talks all the gilrs but he sears up and down he wants to be with me but i dont know wat to do please help me people
2006-11-24 10:27:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
normally when someone threatens to kill themselves they are just wanting attention, you have to do what is best for you. If you are concerned that he may do something alert his family and let them know what is happening before you step out of the picture. However, if you do break up make a clean break no calling, no talking, no text messages, no big drama. That will make it easier for him and for you.
Good luck and let me know what happens.
2006-11-24 10:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody that tells me that they will kill themselves to keep me will not keep me for very long. That is a poor power control attempt and I don't fall for it. If he kills himself it is not your fault though he will try to say it is. As for not hurting him, you can't help what his feelings are going to be. You have no powers over his feelings. Break it off and cool it with the other guy until things settle down, then date the other guy. Being honest also lets the other guy know that you will not do the same to him in the future.
2006-11-24 18:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. If your bf is going to say he'll kill himself, he's trying to pressuring you to do something you don't want to. Another way for him to get control over the situation. If you stay with your bf he might make you do somethings down the road that you wouldn't want to. So if you truly believe your bf isn't harmfully pressuring you, then stay with him, but if you do, then break up with him. Follow your heart.
2006-11-24 18:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him then kill his stupid *** if that's what he wants to do, no one is stopping him.
2006-11-24 18:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋