I lived with my stepfather and he pasted 2 years ago. I never knew my real dad or other sister.
2006-11-24 10:32:22 · 8 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry about your stepfather, I guess now that he has passed you feel you still need someone...its only natural that you are now curious and would want to seek your biological dadand your sister...you need to realise though that it may not be easy, it may not turn out as you wish it to be and need to prepare your self for it.....I think its a good idea as long as your prepared to face what lays ahead, you need to see it in a way that "oh well i have nothing to loose" attitude and take it from there...I wish you good luck and I hope things work out for you.
2006-11-24 10:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you feel you should or you need them in your life. Usually sadness brings on the feelings of what might have been, Generally, it was not as you have imagined it. And, usually, reunions of this nature go well for a while, and then whoops, did I really want to meet them again - what a mistake that was. But - if it goes well, then you have a whole new family. So, if you are prepared emotionally for another huge loss if it does not work out, then go for it and find them.
2006-11-24 10:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means go ahead and look for him. He may want to see you too. Sometimes birth Dad's just get pushed out of the way and they don't make waves because they want what is best for their child. Sometimes that may mean backing out and letting the Mother start a new family.
2006-11-24 11:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I have never known my father and I am 18 years old. If you want to find you're real father then you should. I think I would want to find my father, but my adoptive parents are truly wonderful, that I don't think I need to find him.
2006-11-24 10:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Emerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find ur real/biological father. coz u cant denied that he is ur father. maybe in his hearts he still searching and waiting for u to come and see him. no one of parents cant forget their daughter and son.
2006-11-24 10:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by dena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may give you closure, in your life, sometimes it is good, and sometimes it does not work out, so keep and open mind. and if this is what you want to do, go for it!
2006-11-24 10:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...are you ready for what can happen or what you will find out. Whether it will be good or bad?_
2006-11-24 10:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, who knows maybe he is looking for you right now!
2006-11-24 10:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋