I'm a female and I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I get along with my parents fine and I can talk to them but when it comes to this subject its a little difficult. I'm very cautious about who my parents meet and I always said that I would never have them meet just random people and that I didnt want them to meet any of my boyfriends until I knew for sure that I really wanted to be with him. Well I've finally come to that point and I want to tell them but I'm having a little trouble approaching them with it. I cant seem to find that perfect opportunity. I've met his parents and I want to be able to return that to him. He knows I needed time to do it and he's been very understanding but I'm ready now and I just cant seem to get around to doing it. Any suggestions or ways to drop hints would be appreciated.
2006-11-24 10:47:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
BE VERY HONEST AND CALM WITH YOUR PARENTS WHEN YOU DECIDE TO TALK TO THEM ABOUT YOUR BOY FRIEND.PARENTS ARE VERY UNDESTANDING AND LOVING FOR THEIR KIDS.SO GO AND TELL THEM NOW AND GOOD LUCK.AND LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENED.
2006-11-24 10:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by FREE SPIRIT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to bring to do it is remind them of how you've listen to there talks about having boyfriends. That is if your parents where anything like mine. lol! Reassure them that you've listen to what that have taught you and that you've been lucky enough to of found a great guy and that you would love to share that part of your life with them. They will be grateful to know that you respect them enough and care about them to want them to be involved. The rest will fall into place!!
2006-11-24 10:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by heatherc_nao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your parents together and say to them, I have a boyfriend, and I would like for you to meet him. and leave it at that, either they will say okay, or they do not want to. so I hope it all works out for you!
2006-11-24 11:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your'e really serios about him, and you have as good as a bond as you say you do with your parents, then plain out tell them. It makes your bond better and when they know they will see how you are good for each other. event if it doesn't work out with this guy it will be much easier with the next.
2006-11-24 10:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by all4beingnice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told my dad after 8 months (my mom knew but my dad didnt) and what i did i just told him straight out. im like "hey guess what i have" and i told him. just be blunt about it go "hey mom and dad i want you to know that i have a boyfriend and i want you to meet him." hope this helped good luck
2006-11-24 10:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st sit with them and say look i have met the guy i want to be with and i really want u 2 me him.talkto them say i hope u understand me and him that we want to be together and if we didnt think that theni wont have told u to met him. if u need more adive im me or email me .
2006-11-24 10:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by yasminlovesya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them figure it out... if they ask you if you have a boyf just tell them you do... and when they ask you how come you dirent tell them.... is cause you dirent feel. ...whats the word ummm.... like ummm sure of how to come at them with that topic or something like that
2006-11-24 10:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom dad i have a boy firend yay ! want to meet him
2006-11-24 10:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by melissa d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just asked this!
2006-11-24 10:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by P!ATD GIRL! Luvn Brendon Urie! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋