Me and my boyfriend been going out for a few weeks now we don't really talk on the phone because i'm nervous to talk to him on the phone.But before we started going out I talked to him on the phone once and we really didn't have anything to talk about...Now im ready to talk on the phone and don't have anything to talk about can somebody please give me some questions to ask or at least something to talk about.......HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-24 10:46:54 · 17 answers · asked by *♥MiiSz uNiiQu3♥* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you guys do in each others presence. I'm guesing you do more than screw.
Maybe try to take interest in some of his hobbies.
2006-11-24 10:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by MTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu can start by asking "How was your day today"? and then things will pick up but if he seems not so interested start talking about a movie you might want to see and then theres a great chance he might take you to it. You can also talk about your day in school (if your still in school) or maybe say something like "I'm so tired" than he'll get curious and as you question.
2006-11-24 18:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by IcanHelpyou:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telephone is a way of comunication.But there are certain people that use telephone only for practice things. I think you are one of them. don't bother why you don't talk...as long as you see himm live.
but if you really want suggestions try one of this:
1. How are you doing?
2.What did you do today?
3. Tell me something beatiful
4. I miss you
5. what are you going to do for the rest of your day.
good luck and don't panic :)
2006-11-24 18:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be feeling nervous because you don't know him. You will have to have the feeling of sharing your thoughts and ideas with him. Start by asking him what his interests are and then talk about them. The more interest you show in him the more he will feel comfortable and then reciprocate. Remember its a two way street.
2006-11-24 18:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Cerebraltissue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up something funny and random. out of the blue start taling about fish or blenders in the grass. it will keep you on the phone longer and he will know that he can be more free about things. then he will talk about more stuff. or if you stay on the safe side you could just sit there and talk about how tired you hav been lately.
2006-11-24 18:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbellluvr3668 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'm confused at how he is your boyfriend if you don't talk..... How do you go out then???? See each other in person and when the date is over, set up a time and place for the next date???
2006-11-24 18:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were talking to someone whom would be a great match for you, talking on the phone or otherwise Will come and natural.
This guy probably isn't your match made in heaven.
Love,
Gregory
2006-11-24 18:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something why did u want to date me?talk about going out on a date sometime like going to the movies or a restaraunt or to the mall.
2006-11-24 18:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by b&a4_ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok calm down. ask him things about his self like ummmm...what his favorite colors are or what kind of music he likes and if he is someone you are going to be staying with you should not be nervous to talk to him on the phone but i know how u feel about nothin to talk about me and my bf are like that, all i can say is ask him to tell u about himself and then tell him about your self
2006-11-24 18:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by leelandrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, just ask him about whatever comes to your mind first, like hows ur day going, or what r u doin... Things will pick up from there.
2006-11-24 18:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by Chelsea S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋