Family & Relationships - 21 November 2006

how are teens getting into marriage so easily and so quickly?

2006-11-21 03:47:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-21 03:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by joieho22 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 03:46:56 · 23 answers · asked by Luis T 3 in Singles & Dating

i havent emailed,phone,IM my ex for few days now. Last time we email each other was on saturday and after that I haven heard from him. im curious on why he didnt email me back? is he mad at me? i didnt say anything wrong to him...jus said i was confuse about us both and etc....

should i email him back? i dont want to end it with a feeling im havin now...wondering why he didnt email me back..... so what should i do? this is killing me?

our last email was about me saying how i miss seeing/talkin to him... n he feels the same way.......and no replies back?

is he confused? he doesnt wanna deal with me anymore?

so confused

2006-11-21 03:46:51 · 11 answers · asked by julie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-21 03:44:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy by the way!

I mean some women, but why is it that when some women come off of a previous relationship from where they were cheated on, and they meet somebody they like afterwards they have a huge mistrust for him.

They say they trust him, but there actions say otherwise, if your a WOMEN in this POSITION how long did it take you?

2006-11-21 03:44:03 · 16 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Singles & Dating

I've got a new boyfriend and he's really nice and a great guy but during sex he likes to bite me in my sensitive areas. I find it uncomfortable but i feel bad saying anything incase i hurt his feelings and i dont know how to tell him. Has your guy ever done this to you and do u like it?

2006-11-21 03:44:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I care deeply for her and she tells me she is completely in love with me. we have been monagamus for 4 years now and we live 2400 miles apart. She is asian and I am white. My biggest trouble is that I havent been able to find the right way to move out there. I have large debt 10k+ and a mortgage. All my family and friends are here. What fustrates me is that when I have my doubts she is not confident enough to support me. I can be confident 98% of the time but during that 2% I need a woman that can be strong and help me through the tough time. Although I disagree with stereotypes my friend says that an asian girl is ultimatly submissive despite any mask they may wear.I care deeply, I really want to find where this will go after a 4 year investment. Am I lieing to myself should I give up because she will never be the woman I need in my life.

2006-11-21 03:43:07 · 10 answers · asked by yeaney 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm turnig 18 on january 6th but my boyfriend is 22, do you think thats to old? He doesn't act that older than me . And i'm giong on prom in May and he can't go because the age limit is 20yrs old. I would like to take my exboyfirend because we still are really close, and he has never went on prom before, he just made 19.Do you think this would be ok with my boyfirend what should i do, because i don't wont to wait til the last minute to find a date.

2006-11-21 03:42:47 · 11 answers · asked by shay 1 in Singles & Dating

I am totaly in love with this one guy but he its a long distance relationship how can i focus less on him and more on my school work? (im in school atm)

2006-11-21 03:42:46 · 4 answers · asked by Osita 3 in Singles & Dating

Good day people. I am meeting this girl for the first time holidays coming cause we both have school work to do and we decided after exams etc we can meet. I am planning to take her to the coffee shop and maybe to a nice resturant but as is first meeting, i will kno then and there if i am intrested in her or not. The question is whether i am intrested to go to the next step or not intrested and be jus good friends, i wud like to know if i shud pay for her or a 50/50 thing. Cause if we do get together, i dont want her get the feeling i will be paying for her ALL the time. Comments and recommendations i am open. Thanks.

2006-11-21 03:42:13 · 13 answers · asked by The Honourable 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi i just turned 20 and have been married a year just about to my hubby who is 24 years old going on 25. We dated 5 months before getting engaged the 6 th month and married the next week in vegas. I am still in college and he wants to start a family wants our first child now!He has been hasseling me non stop about having kids.He also wants me to stay home with them and be a stay at home mom.There seems to be no comprimise with him . Recently i bumped into and old friend and we had lunch and i realized that i dont feel like myself when i am with my hubby. I thought the second thoughts i had before the wedding were cold feet now i am not so sure.?

2006-11-21 03:41:55 · 42 answers · asked by Carla M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have always preferred my middle name and found out recently from my mum that I was actually always meant to be known by it (not quite sure why i wasn't then but never mind!).

I am also getting married next year and my middle name goes much better with my soon-to-be married name.

I'm very tempted to make the change and start using my middle name.

Anyone else done this? How did people react to it? Are you now known by your new name, or did everyone just say you were mad and ignore it?

2006-11-21 03:41:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He flirts around w/ a bunch of girls and he always makes it look that he still likes me but i think he just wants me to be all over him i want to do something to him that would make him stop thinking tht he is te ****!!

2006-11-21 03:41:23 · 4 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Male friend of over a decade ago , lets call him Dan, calls unsuspectedly and tells me he used to have a bad crush on me. It was obvious from the phone call he never got over it. I always knew but never led him on. We were more like best friends. Today he has never married and has no kids. I'm married with children. My marriage is a disaster but he doesn't know that, I don't think?! We are miles away from each other. For now I hope to work on my marriage and really don't know what the future holds. I do know that Dan is a wonderful guy, well a man now, with strong values and really deserves someone without a past and someone that can correspond him like he deserves. I know I'm not the one for him and even if I thought I was... I'm taken, so to speak. I'm glad to hear from my "friend" I have actually missed that friendship. I am flattered but uncomfortable to hear about his crush because I can't correspond. What would you do about this without losing a wonderful friend?

2006-11-21 03:40:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

See my close friend birthday is this thursday and i really want him to talk to me i love him and he loves me but he wont talk so what do i do? please help please

2006-11-21 03:40:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ppl i am honest, caring, littler shy, very romatic , little black, funny and love to explore love but don't wanna get married soon........ y don't i find a girl to share feelings..........

2006-11-21 03:40:07 · 3 answers · asked by Don 1 in Singles & Dating

have my mba and will earn somewhere around 110k this year, maybe a bit more. i sort of feel that my job is a cakewalk now and no longer a challenge. i have sort of lost my career motivation. to an extent, i care and to a larger extent i no longer do. my wife on occasion will ask me when i am going to start looking for another job and i just tell her in another month . sort of feel like i just want to enjoy life rather than stress myself out by taking some 200k a year job managing 100 or more people. i really dont care whether we stay in our 3 bedroom 1 1/2 bath home in northern new jersey or upgrade to something bigger. i also think it wouldnt be the end of the world if my kids had to take out college loans. i sort of feel like i have achieved enough. maybe i would feel different if i wasnt making enough to make ends meet. my wife makes about 45k a year so its not like i feel any embarrassment about what i am earning. ladies, would you be disappointed if your husband had this attitude?

2006-11-21 03:39:53 · 14 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my mom which is my aunt...she adopted me when i was 4 and now im 16 and as we all kno thanxgivin is comin up and my real mom who just recently got back into my life like 8 month ago want me to spend thanxgivin with her i dont want to her any ones feelings so wat should i do

2006-11-21 03:39:44 · 3 answers · asked by ShayLovin 2 in Family

Hes been persueing me for about three months now, but I just don't know what to do. He's 20 i'm 26. I just don't want him to think that hes getting an older women fling and thats all. I'm not looking for games, but he just persits on taking me out on a date. What would you guys do, what do you think?

2006-11-21 03:39:39 · 20 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

he told me at lunch that he has it but i cant have it yet am i bugging him if i keep asking?

2006-11-21 03:39:14 · 5 answers · asked by Chelsea <3 1 in Singles & Dating

So many people choose to be celibate....is it through religious purposes what are the reasons behind it?.......give some examples......

2006-11-21 03:38:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i met my bf of 3 years online and we have seen each other and we used to talk every night well we have not spoken in about 6 months what should i do?? move on??? i mean we had plans for the future we were supost to get marryed and have kids and now i dont know what to do!!! someone please help!!!

2006-11-21 03:38:01 · 8 answers · asked by socerchic2007 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends and family always harpin on me cause i have never been on a date and am still single. but i dont believe in forcin things.you gotta let it come to you..ya know...just let it happen...and they on my case because im turnin 40 next week.

2006-11-21 03:37:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this sounds weird but everytime i have sex he always seems to pull my boobs and mess with them its all he does nothing else that all what going on ?

2006-11-21 03:37:05 · 41 answers · asked by ..x.. [m]iss [e]mz ..x.. 1 in Singles & Dating

To feel lust for another is quite a powerful feeling when in the moment...but where does it really come from?....is it something to yield to, or be overcome?.....let me know your views on this.........

2006-11-21 03:36:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, my husband works for a big company that does signs, all kinds, and my brother in-law comment me that he needs to replace the signs on his restaurant. My husband was right next to me when I was speaking with my brother-in-law. So then I told my brother-in-law that maybe my husband can help him out, better yet could maybe get him a quote from where he works. My brother-in-law said that he was thinking on asking my husband for the same things. Then later that night, we brought it up and my husband then said that I say too much. That now I got him tied up with the issue of the signs with my brother in law. I told him, "All your going to do is just a quote"!! What's the big deal! My husband said that I should of asked him first....that I made a decision that he should of made. I told him that he's just over reacting to something small. I told my husband," your not going to do any labor, work in any way, you only going to get him a quote!! I didn't think he would mind.What do you think

2006-11-21 03:36:31 · 27 answers · asked by Maria A 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A married woman with marital problems finds someone on the net to listen to her problems and now they are talking on the phone, but refuses to meet the man. Is she cheating? Why do you think she will not meet him, even though they are close on the net and phone?

2006-11-21 03:36:14 · 20 answers · asked by HM 3 in Marriage & Divorce

1 of my friends (ill call her barbara!) has recently got 2gtha with a boi who is a year older than us. we wer really hapi 4 her coz shes liked him 4 a long time. theyve been 2gtha 4 a few months now n me n my best friend (ill call her betty) think shes leaving us out. barbara goes out with him n all his mates almost every nite n he admitted 2 her the otha day that he hated me n betty! th only reason we found this out was bcoz we accidently red a txt hed sent 2 her! we askd her y she didnt tel us n she sed bcoz she doesnt feel like she can tell us stuff nemor! wev told her that we feel she leaves us out n that she 4gets about us but she sed well its not my fault u neva *** out. our response was well your always with them neways n u dont include us! we dont no wat 2 do bcoz it causin arguments btween us al th time n she dusnt seem 2 understand that its her thats changed not us! ne ideas?!

2006-11-21 03:35:24 · 5 answers · asked by Newoliun 2 in Friends

Do you like/dislike when your boyfriend tells you to give him a call/text to let you know you got back home safetly?

I don't make a habit out of always having her call/text me, but from time to time I just want to make sure she gets home safetly. I wonder if girls like it when their boyfriend tells them to do that, as a way of letting them know that they care or if it's annoying to you, as the girl.

Inputs please...

2006-11-21 03:35:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating