Hes been persueing me for about three months now, but I just don't know what to do. He's 20 i'm 26. I just don't want him to think that hes getting an older women fling and thats all. I'm not looking for games, but he just persits on taking me out on a date. What would you guys do, what do you think?
2006-11-21 03:39:39 · 20 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am married to a man who's 8 years younger than I am. We got together with the intention of going out to dinner and seeing where it went from there and.... after a few months we fell in love. I made it VERY CLEAR right away that I was not looking for a fly by night fling. I do know how you're feeling though - because I was VERY reluctant to go out with him. I wondered how mature he'd be and I was really done with dating games by that point, I wanted a serious relationship. We dealt with a lot of crap from his family not taking us seriously because they thought I was looking to have babies and get married. (I don't have children, don't want them). Really what I wanted was a good man who would treat me right and it just so happened he was the one. Age difference or not, he turned out to be a great guy and an even better husband. You should give him a chance, if you think he's worth it! You may be missing out on someone wonderful. Don't let that happen just due to an age difference.
2006-11-21 03:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Peach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him, what could it hurt? Just make sure he doesn't get everything that first time. That way you know whether it is a fling or not. he will come back if he really likes you. I am 26 and i try to stay away from 20 year olds. It is usually nothing more than a little bit of fun with a lot of drama. But who knows, it may work for you!
2006-11-21 11:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him? Yes or No. You don't go out with a guy because he persists. Do you want to get involved with him? If yes, give it a try with the risk that he my not be as mature as you are or just want to try an older girl. But at least, you will figure what that's all about.
Good luck
2006-11-21 11:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are uncomfortable at the thought of going out with a younger guy. I can see where you're coming from. However, he may truly care for you, regardless of the age difference, and that should be all that matters. Give him a chance.
2006-11-21 12:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel he is genuine about his interest in you, and likes you for you? If you aren't convinced, tell him very firmly that you don't want to go out with him and explain your stand. At the same time be nice so he isn't hurt too badly. Most men don't take rejection very well.
2006-11-21 11:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Crazy Heart if it feels good I say go for it. 6 years at your age is pretty significant but in reality you'll never know if it might be real or not if you don't give it a try. Good luck and Merry Christmas.
2006-11-21 11:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go out with him and just see how it goes. it doesn't matter how old he is as long as you get along and want to be together and it's not like you have to sleep with him if you don't want too!
2006-11-21 11:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by NIC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go on the date and see what happens it cant HURT talk to him about and see what he says but go on the date and HAVE FUN!!!! and age is just a number it is what on the inside that counts
2006-11-21 11:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take him up on his offer..
Everyone is different..
Age.. What does that matter unless it's going to get you in jail..
Girl he might just swoop you off your feet..
2006-11-21 11:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him and have fun. There is nothing wrong with that!
2006-11-21 11:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋