Male friend of over a decade ago , lets call him Dan, calls unsuspectedly and tells me he used to have a bad crush on me. It was obvious from the phone call he never got over it. I always knew but never led him on. We were more like best friends. Today he has never married and has no kids. I'm married with children. My marriage is a disaster but he doesn't know that, I don't think?! We are miles away from each other. For now I hope to work on my marriage and really don't know what the future holds. I do know that Dan is a wonderful guy, well a man now, with strong values and really deserves someone without a past and someone that can correspond him like he deserves. I know I'm not the one for him and even if I thought I was... I'm taken, so to speak. I'm glad to hear from my "friend" I have actually missed that friendship. I am flattered but uncomfortable to hear about his crush because I can't correspond. What would you do about this without losing a wonderful friend?
2006-11-21
03:40:47
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