2006-11-21 03:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by joieho22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you dont think that he will be around for a while, then he needs to spend less time with the kid...or maybe its just a cover up...find out what he wants and try to work it out with him, without causing an argument
2006-11-21 03:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by sckr4luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he does have to leave, it would hurt your kids feelings if he just stopped coming around..your kid may also be getting attached to him..the best way to do it would be to sit down and talk about what may happen that he may have to go, but you guys want to spend as much time as possible until then,..that way hearts wont get broken as much and everyone is already prepared..
2006-11-21 03:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good, SO's should not be involved with kids until the relationship is very serious. This guy is probably on his way out, let him go gracefully.
2006-11-21 03:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same problem, and it was more intense for me cause it was my friends kid, and his chick liked me and fu cked me whenever i could stop by and that was it, she got attached and i had to leave... really has nothing to do with the kid, but i can understand why he doesn't want that to happen, he doesn't want responsibility
2006-11-21 03:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nonetheless i ought to experience extra in existence...to be waiting to furnish a the main suitable option answer here....yet i think of we shouldn't get "related" to ppl... we like them, have fun with them, help them continually,pray for them, seek advice from them...all is high quality...yet now not an emmotional attachment and dependance....it makes us susceptible... here i'm now not talking abt kin kinfolk...mothers and fathers, little ones, siblings, companion and so forth. ....those fall in a completely distinctive type....all of us be conscious of those ppl o.k. and we r specific that they r our nicely wishers....yet for anybody outdoors kin circle...i think of being emmotionally based isn't a clever selection...we can love ppl with all our coronary heart and soul with out being emmotionally based on them...it additionally supplies us extra happiness whilst we r now not based on all and sundry and don't assume issues out of them.. ppl who first attempt to come back close and then depart with out justification...they r the two very indecisive or now not related to the courting....its now not very smart to be frendz with volatile ppl.... hiya !! do now not i sound sooo rude and tough throughout the time of this answer !!!! LOL !!!...i merely theory so once I re-examine it !!!
2016-12-17 13:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by hillis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an excuse to me...kick him to the curb
2006-11-21 03:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the danger you face when you go into a relationship with baggage.
2006-11-21 03:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to get pregnant with him, and force him to stay with you.
2006-11-21 03:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by ilovethecolony 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋